Kant said:
"I respect any independent soul. Although I do not recognize some, I can understand them as much as possible."
In this world, everyone has different experiences and positions.
does not need to ask for the same, but please respect each other.
The first thing we need to do when interacting with people is to give them enough respect.
Respect others' interests, respect others' views, and respect each other's differences.
Reliable is the most important ability of a person
There is no shortage of smart people in this world, but there are fewer reliable people.
Just as the writer Chi Li said:
"Reliable, simple to say, complicated to fall down; it sounds like a feeling, but it is the principle to do it."
What is reliable?
The commonly accepted saying is:
"Everything has an explanation, everything has a conclusion, everything has a response."
In real life, reliability has become a person's most important ability.
After all, no one is willing to accept a friend who always loses the chain and causes trouble for themselves everywhere.
Therefore, the luckiest thing in a person's life is to be in a reliable circle and have a reliable friend.
And a reliable person will definitely have some characteristics. If you encounter them, you must firmly grasp them and will definitely achieve twice the result with half the effort.
Make friends for three lives. I am lucky to have three lives.
Shakespeare said: A person would rather listen to a hundred beautiful lies than to listen to a straightforward truth.
People would rather listen to lies than to the truth. This is the greatest weakness of human nature.
Because lies are nice and make people feel convinced; lies are pleasing and will not offend people.
As the saying goes, it is a blessing to have one or two close friends in life. If you can make friends, you will be lucky in three lives.
Regarding "controversy", " Shuowen Jiezi " explains: "Controversy means stopping, stopping the loss."
means that a friend is a friend who dares to tell the truth and dissuades you from making mistakes.
This is how friends are. They may not speak tactfully or nicely, and they even have a little quarrel and targeting, but they are real and not artificial, which alerts people and prevents people from making mistakes. Only such people are worthy of deep friendship.
Friends are rare. Those who can speak out are often honest and pragmatic. In times of distress, such people are still by your side.
Make friends with such people, and they can benefit endlessly.
A person who can often give himself advice and point out his shortcomings must be the person who cares about, loves the most, and hopes that he can develop and succeed.
Make friends with kind people
The so-called kindness means being loyal, honest, and being able to think about friends when encountering things. If "reliable" can be interpreted as being loyal to things, then "kindness" means being loyal to people.
Kind people may not be smart and capable, but they will never betray them. As long as they are determined, they will always follow you, even if they suffer, suffer, sweat, or even sacrifice themselves, have no regrets.
" Soldier Assault " was very popular back then. I believe everyone has seen it. The Xu Sanduo in it is actually not the best in terms of ability.
In terms of marksmanship, he is not as good as Wu Zhe , in terms of academic qualifications and professional knowledge, he is not as good as Gaocheng , in terms of Kokang, he is not as good as Yuan Lang , and in terms of comprehensive abilities, he is also clumsy and has almost no leadership skills, but he is the core of the entire team.
Why?
It is because he is kind-hearted and every comrade in the battlefield can hand over his back with confidence. He is a person who truly brings the spirit of "not giving up, not giving up" to the extreme.
Someone said:
"Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respects talent, conforms to personality, long-term kindness, and finally character."
On the long road of life, we will meet many people and know each other.
Only when dating people with good character can the relationship become deeper and more stable with time.
Get along with each other depends on fate; deep friendship depends on character.
A person with kindness and good character is most worthy of our friendship for the rest of our lives.
