1 If one day you become a vegetable, the following will happen: Only your parents can't bear to leave you, they will take turns to be by the bedside and take care of you for a long time. Although it is very painful, they are generally reluctant to let you go. Your spouse may take care of you for 1 to 2 months, but after 1 to 2 months, you will basically choose to extubate the tube and send you away, and then find the next partner. Your children will take care of you and the time will be a little longer, such as 2 to 3 months, but in the end they will lose patience and choose to extubate the tube so that you can leave so as not to drag him down. Your good friend will come to see you once, but generally won’t come the second time. Most of your classmates will not come to see you, and even if you come, they are only a few. In your various WeChat groups, the group members learned that you have become a vegetable. People who are usually dissatisfied with you but dare not speak, but now they are starting to say all kinds of bad things in the group, saying that you deserve it, etc. This is the truth. 2 You deeply believe that you are a good person, and you firmly believe that the freedom and rights of every citizen should be respected. But despite this, when you see your annoying remarks on the Internet, you still can't help but complain and report. Why? Because, you are not as good as you imagined, you firmly believe that you are a good person, but in fact it may not be the case. 3 When you are not married yet, suppose The son of the Japanese Emperor , or the prince of Thailand, falls in love with your girlfriend and wants her to be the princess, and is very sincere. Then in this case, the probability of your girlfriend leaving you is between 60% and 100%. The relationship between people is essentially an economic relationship. The earlier you understand the principle of , the better. 4 Some of the people in our lives today who criticize "refined egoism" are actually "refined egoism". Many people’s complaints about “delicate egoists” are essentially complaints about “delicate is not good for me”. For example, Zhang San asked Li Si to borrow money, but Li Si did not borrow money. Zhang San ridiculed Li Si as a "fine egoist". Zhang San's words actually mean: Li Si's exquisiteness is not good for me. 
For example, the community owner A wrote to the relevant department to complain about the degree lottery. The owner A asked the owner B and C to sign, and B and C refused to sign. A ridiculed B and C as "exquisite egoists". The meaning of A was actually to complain that B and C were "exquisite and unfavorable to A".
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There are many women in the simplified Chinese society, which is very absurd:
Meet a talented and capable man, dislikes his parents for not having money (the family is not good).
When you meet a good family, you dislike mediocre, lack of talent, and love to smoke and drink.
When you meet a rich person, you think he is old. When I meet a young person, I feel that he has no money.
met a handsome guy and thought he was not doing well in his work. When I meet a good job, I think I am not handsome.
Even if she meets her handsome and has a good job, she will start to feel that she is not going well and not satisfied with that.
In short, they are not looking for "object", but "idol". The best destination for women like
is the health stick in adult goods stores. It costs 300 yuan per piece, charges once, and lasts for 3 hours. The brand is called "GO FUCK YOURSELF".
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Someone asked me: Are there ghosts and gods in the world?
No one can prove to you: there are ghosts and gods in the world.
No one can prove to you: there are no ghosts and gods in the world.
Therefore, the most rational way is: do not do evil. Don't offend ghosts and gods.
As long as you do not do evil or offend ghosts and gods, then you don’t have to be afraid regardless of whether there are ghosts and gods or not.
This is the smartest strategy.
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Many people's faces are like this:
While scolding corrupt officials, they also took civil servants exams because it is said that civil servants have a lot of "oil and water".
While scolding monopoly, it squeezes into large state-owned enterprises because it is said that large state-owned enterprises are "treatable".
While cursing all kinds of darkness in the world, he bribed the back door for his children's degree.
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There is a simple way to help your child become successful, that is: constantly praise his strengths.
For example, if your child has good English since childhood, then you should often praise his strengths, so that the child can get positive feedback, and strengthen his confidence in his strengths. This self-confidence will in turn promote the further development of his strengths. This is the beauty of positive feedback. As a result, your child's strengths will become more and more outstanding. When you grow up, you may become an excellent simultaneous interpretation expert or diplomat.
This is just a simple example, and other things, and so on, the same applies.
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Qing Dynasty Wang Yongbin "Wailu Night Talk" has this passage:
filial piety is the first priority, and no matter how you talk about your heart, no filial son in poor families.
0,000 evil lust is the leader, no matter how you talk about your mind, no one in the world can do it.
The meaning of this passage is:
: To determine whether a person is filial, it not only depends on his behavior, but also on his economic conditions. If he only looks at his behavior, no one of the poor is filial to his parents.
On the contrary, to judge whether a person is lustful, one should look at his behavior, not his heart. If he looks at his heart, then everyone in the world is full of bastards.
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I found an interesting phenomenon: worshipping losers in history, most of them are also losers, worshiping successful figures in history, and most of them are doing well.
For example, people who worship Wang Jingwei , Jiang Jieshi , Xiang Yu , Jing Ke , Chongzhen Emperor, Yuan Chonghuan ... etc. usually don’t do well in real life.
On the contrary, those who worship successful people like Nurhachi , Zhu Yuanzhang , Zheng Chenggong , Li Shimin , Genghis Khan usually do well in real life. The law of
is not 100% accurate, but there is a 80% accuracy in visual inspection.
sympathize with each other. In the subconscious, people always like their own kind. "Birds of birds of a feather flock together", which is what they mean.
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Why do you tell people so many truths that people always can’t listen to it, and they have to fall by themselves and then believe it?
The answer is:
Because humans have a kind of conceit, they believe that what happens to others may not happen to themselves, and they will believe that the truth is true unless they have experienced it themselves.
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In essence, humans are economic animals. When an economy develops rapidly and everyone's income is steadily increasing, almost all contradictions will be covered up. This is why development is the hard truth.
This is not only true for an economy, but also for individuals. When you earn 100 million, you will find that your sadness and pain in the past were actually whining without any illness.
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Friends do not work with each other. Work together without friends.
If you have to work with friends, then you must be mentally prepared to turn against each other.
Relatives and classmates are the same.
is not absolutely accurate, but there is a visual accuracy rate of 70% to 90%.
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Why do you know so many principles but still not live a good life?
The answer is very simple:
Because, what determines your destiny is not how much you know, but your behavior, that is, what you did.
No matter how much you know, if you don’t do it, it is equal to zero.
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When housing prices rose, the real estate agent said: Buy it quickly, if you don’t buy it, it will rise again!
When housing prices fell, the real estate agent said: Buy it quickly, it’s an opportunity to be cheap now!
In short, from the perspective of the agent, it is right whenever you buy a house.
Similarly, when the fund performs well, the fund manager said: The market is good, buy it quickly!
When the fund performs poorly, the fund manager said: Now the fund price is low, and falling is an opportunity, and it is a good time to buy it!
In short, from the perspective of fund managers, it is all right to buy funds.
These are typical examples of the butt determine the head.
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There is a way to make you popular in all WeChat groups, that is: send more red envelopes.
In fact, the same is true in real life. If you give more favors to the people you know, then you will find that there are almost no villain in your life.
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WeChat Moments content, to read the opposite, it is often closer to the truth, to give an example:
A person posts various high-end Western foods, beautiful consumption places, famous wines, golfing, and all kinds of bright and beautiful wine in the Moments. In short, it is full of rich people's mood. This person often has no money. In those occasions, they are actually used by others. He is pretending to be rich.
On the contrary, the circle of friends of truly rich people often posts very little, and they are often very simple. Many times they are ordinary suburban scenery photos. The rich people are rich in heart and do not need to show off, so the circle of friends of rich people looks a bit like the poor.
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Most people do something wrong and are criticized, and they will refute it reflexively. Even if they are indeed wrong, they must refute it.
This is called "habitual rebuttal". Once a person develops this bad habit, the person is actually "dead", and he has closed the door to "progress".
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Don't show off to anyone your photo with any celebrity.
Even if you take 10,000 photos with 100 celebrities, you will not become a celebrity because of this.
People are celebrities. You are not.
Take a photo with a celebrity, nothing can represent it, nothing can explain it.
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All seemingly puzzling things actually have reasons and reasons for their occurrence and existence.
You find it puzzling, just because you haven't really understood it yet.
If you want to truly understand it, then you must first be willing to let go of your resistance and try to understand it.
