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Some people say that when a person likes to watch the flowers falling and the scenery where autumn leaves slowly fall, then the person's mood is slowly getting older.
However, the so-called state of mind ages only makes people mature and calm.
The years of time make people grow old, and we always amaze the ruthlessness of time, but why, we don’t think about it, time makes people grow old, but it only makes people have peace of mind and precipitation of thoughts, so that people no longer doubt the world.
In the past, I often read famous poems of the Tang Dynasty Du Fu , and parked and sat in the maple forest late, with frost leaves redder than February flowers.
At that time, Du Fu used the scenery to express his emotions and had profound meanings.
Du Fu was already in his old age, but he was frustrated in his career.
But he is still full of hope for life and full of love for life, and sighed that even though he is like frost leaves, his youth is no longer there, but because of his deeper thoughts, he is wiser and more optimistic than his frivolity when he was young.
Heroes are easy to grow old, but beauties are old.
Many people are worried about getting older, but they don’t think about it. Aging may not be a bad thing. As long as a person’s heart does not grow old, he can move towards a more mature and stable stage of life.
The reason why people are worried about the psychological pressure caused by getting older is that the so-called small goals in life and phased achievements have not been achieved yet, so they feel their own misfortune and their lack of talent.
But Feng Menglong once said that success may not be possible when one is young, but not in the old age may not be able to succeed. You cannot be young and self-reliant, and you cannot be able to give up when one is old.
So, what really gets older is just the inner world of a person.
As long as your heart is not old, you will always be young and full of hope, and you can create your own glory.
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The flowers of water, land, grass and trees are so cute.
I love the lotus that comes out of the mud without staining, washes in the clear water without being charming, is straight from the middle and the outside, does not vine or branches, and the fragrance becomes clearer from the distance.
Lotus has always represented holiness, elegance and aloofness, and is a thing that ancient literati and poets love to appreciate.
How many modern people know how to appreciate its beauty?
Northern Song poet " Love Lotus " written by Zhou Dunyi , praises the charm and uniqueness of lotus flowers, and also uses poetry to reflect his integrity and demeanor, despise fame and wealth, does not follow the trend, does not pursue fame and fortune, and maintains a noble sentiment in the secular world.
In today's materialistic money society, there are very few people who can get out of the mud without being stained and keep it alone. Even fewer people can understand the holiness and pride of lotus.
If lotus is compared to a lady, then it is a gentleman like lotus leaves. The lotus leaves highlight the elegance of lotus, and the lotus reflects the green color of lotus leaves.
And the combination of a gentleman and a lady will be a light intersect and blend like water. Such a love can definitely stand the test of time.
This era is calling for more gentlemen and ladies, rather than more scumbags and scumbags.
Scumbags and scumbags are playing with one foot higher than the devils. They deceive each other, and the final result is to hurt others and hurt themselves.
And gentleman and lady will brew truly pure love as described in " Book of Songs ", and let this love last forever and last forever.
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The world kisses me with pain and asks me to repay it with songs.
The famous Indian poet Tagore wrote such a popular quote in his " Bird Collection ".
No one can live easily for the rest of his life, and everyone has to bear the pain in his life.
Can we use singing to relieve inner pain and fatigue? This determines whether our attitude towards life is pessimistic or optimistic and calm?
Lost in love, unemployment, divorce, or the death of relatives, these seven sorrows and eight difficulties in life, can we face them strongly, grit our teeth to bear, take responsibility, and then restore ourselves in pain and devote ourselves to life again?
Only when experiencing fire-like purgatory can the phoenix be reborn in Nirvana and become stronger in will, so that it will face the vast future without fear.
If we cannot withstand the torture of setbacks and difficulties, how can we develop truly strong willpower?
When facing difficulties and obstacles, if pessimism and despair, it will only make things develop in a worse and worse direction. If you can sing a triumphant song, never give up, and never give up, then you may still have a glimmer of hope.
We should not give up on persisting when it is most difficult to persist, and we should not insist on giving up when it is most likely to give up.
Only optimism can make people truly persevere, because if your heart is occupied by the devil, you will no longer be able to face everything calmly, and you will be defeated by fear, panic, and panic.
Only optimism can make people feel the joy of life and the hope that the future can be longed for and imagined.
We can be defeated by reality, but we must never let ourselves defeat ourselves, and let our hearts be occupied by pessimism and negativity.
When you feel that your life is not satisfactory, please give it a song.
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Love is like flowers blooming and fading, love will eventually change. Don’t ask me what to do, so that I can last forever. The lyrics of
sing out the anxiety and anxiety of modern people about emotions.
Everyone wants to ask, is there really a relationship forever? Or in other words, is there any real eternal life in this world?
Perhaps, the so-called eternal life is just a deadline we yearn for?
But I just want to say that such anxiety and doubt are just excuses for those who are passive and lazy to lack confidence in themselves.
A truly long-lasting relationship requires careful management.
If a company is not well managed, it may go bankrupt. However, if this company can flourish, grow and grow under the management of the God of Management, and eventually develop into a good company.
The same is true for marriage and romantic relationships. If you manage it properly and maintain it with your heart, then this relationship will continue to heat up, sublimate, and upgrade, thus becoming an eternal love that will remain unchanged throughout your life.
Some people may say that love over time is just a lie, and getting bored over time is the most normal rhythm of every relationship.
But I just want to say that if you don’t know how to create surprises for your partner, or lover, and provide real freshness and expectation, then you will make your lover or partner, truly get bored, feel that life is boring, or aesthetic fatigue.
If you know how to fall in love like a Frenchman, then you will not let such a relationship lack real freshness and expectation.
When you can truly manage a relationship well, you will get the rewards that this relationship brings to you, and you can also gain a real sense of accomplishment.
I hope each of us can become the god of management of emotions.
Follow the preaching Mr. Li Zi
accompany you to grow!
