Some things that only after you have gone through can you understand more deeply, understand them in your bones and affect you.
In conversation with people, I learned about other people's stories and journeys. I once heard people say: When I was poor, I lived on the leftovers of the garbage dump every day and spent one night after another. This was my darkest day. Later, I met a kind person who helped me, gave me a bite of food, taught me a craft, paid me a salary, and took me with me. I was very grateful. No matter how she beat me and scolded me, I couldn't live without her, and the high salary she gave me, because I had enough hunger and poor days. I endured it, and I didn't want to go back to the days before. This unbearable past is deeply engraved in her bones, as if money in her world will get better, but the facts are confirmed to be so. She can afford what she wants, and she is in pain and happiness. Sometimes she is also confused.
People always have times of confusion. Stop, slow down, think, make short adjustments and stop, maintain a good attitude, and always find the right one, find what they want, and find the life they want.