In life, there are always some people who like to talk endlessly. However, this parent and that parent never thought about what their family is like, nor did they reflect on what they said. It is really annoying to hear it.
Occasional greetings and chatting is not a good idea. It is just that when talking about things, you should look at people with less gossip and wear 'colored glasses', because there is a sentence that can better explain the result: Too much words will lead to .
" Maximum Link " writes: " Sitting in meditation always think about your own mistakes, don't talk about others' mistakes. " means: When sitting alone, you should often reflect on your own mistakes, and when chatting with others, don't talk about others.
This is a kind of cultivation mind and an open-minded attitude. Those who can often reflect on themselves are also down-to-earth and steady people. They know how to "turn inward" to cultivate themselves and create a more solid castle of life.
And those who chat and discuss wrongdoing have some purpose to tell, either they say what others are wrong, or they set off their own good, or even force the " trick " that they have bad intentions, laugh in front of them, and stabbing them in the back, which is really terrible and hateful.
So, when chatting, don’t talk about other people’s right and wrong. Everyone has an unknown side. You don’t want to be spy on others, and others don’t want your fingers.
No gold can be pure, no one is perfect; no one is perfect; no one is a sage, no one can be without mistakes. When conflicts occur with others, or even conflicts, don’t always put the blame on others. You should first reflect on yourself and look for the reasons from yourself, which will alleviate the conflict and enhance your feelings.
Remember more good people and less mistakes; only by looking at people's strengths and remembering their kindness can we stay away from disputes and worries.
People's hearts are mutual. They will treat you the same way as you treat others. Many times, if you take the initiative to admit your mistakes, others will shake hands and make peace; if you are generous and tolerant, others will be considerate and tolerant.
Think about the respected people around us, most of them are those who are cautious in their words and actions. They use silence to make clothes, not exaggerated, not impatient, not show off, but calm down and think twice before acting.
Please do not be misled by wrong words. No matter what happens, you will first think about whether you are wrong, treat it calmly, and then solve the problem with a smile.
Think about it from another perspective. It is convenient for others to be convenient for yourself. Only when others consider others, they can win people's hearts and gain true feelings.
People who have reached a certain age do not like to talk. It’s not that there is nothing to say, but that they don’t want to say and don’t need to say it. If others don’t understand you, it’s nonsense to say anything. If those who understand you say a few words, they will “understand” each other.
You must understand " disease enters from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth ". What should you say and what should you not say, you need to "think twice", don't speak without any restraint, and be attentive to everyone.
Sometimes, when talking to people, you will get " Tell people when they see others, and tell people when they see ghosts ", because not everyone will accept your guidance. Although honest words are beneficial to actions, they always don't like to listen to them.
God will not treat everyone who works hard, nor will he treat every lazy person kindly. Smart people never use tears to win sympathy from others, but use sweat to win applause from others.
Rely on yourself, you will reduce disappointment; talk less, you will reduce trouble. People should have self-knowledge, and know how to reflect on themselves, have higher requirements for themselves and better attitudes towards others, so that your life path will become wider and your probability of success will become higher and higher.
writing is a kind of practice, and it is also a kind of self to save others.
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