Life is like a dream.
0,000 past events, after waking up from the dream, they can only pass by clouds and smoke, they can't grasp or change, they can only let them slip through their fingers, leaving only oneself helpless.
Faced with the past, we may feel a lot of regrets, but in life, there is never a chance to come back, and no matter how much regret is, it can only turn into sighs after sigh.
When we were young, we always made many wishes and we always hoped that we could get what we wanted. But later, under the repeated blows of reality, we finally realized that life cannot be as good as we imagined, and life is far from being as beautiful as we imagined.
Those who once thought that they would never leave themselves would still leave themselves; those who once thought that they would never give up would still give up their dreams; those who once thought that they would never forget would still slowly forget.
The old saying goes: "There must be something in your destiny, and don't force it in your destiny."
Many things in life have long been destined. Its that belong to us will come to us sooner or later, and what does not belong to us will leave us sooner or later.
Sometimes, we are too impetuous.
Even if you know that you love but cannot get it, you will still be entangled because you are unwilling to accept it; even if you know that the future is not clear, you will still feel a sense of ruthlessness that you will not hit the wall and never look back.
After all, I was too impetuous and forced an impossible ending, and ended up hurting.
haste will not be achieved.
When we meet someone wrong, we encounter opportunities that do not belong to us. Even if we are thinking about it, the time has not come. No matter how we take a big step, we will fall and cannot reach the end.
People live for a lifetime, and there is no need to force everything. Just let it go.
01: Feelings, there is no need to force
Fate allows two strangers to cross thousands of mountains and rivers, cross the crowds, and finally meet, fall in love, and stay together, but the fate in this world is not as beautiful as imagined.
Even though two people are attracted to each other, they have long been determined to be for life, but in the face of cruel reality, the so-called affection is still worth talking about, let alone in a relationship that cannot be loved.
Only because of love can one develop tolerance. If there is no love, no matter how much force you force and persistence you are, it will only hurt you even more deeply.
Friendship, no need to force it. Because of your fate, you will still return to you after going around, and the fate that does not belong to you will still leave you no matter how hard you stay.
says that a forced melon is not sweet.
People live for decades just to make themselves happier. If the relationship you work hard can make you feel happy, then you should pursue it bravely, but if that relationship only makes you feel pain, then don’t force it.
Make yourself feel better, you and I have the right to pursue happiness.
02: Gains and losses, there is no need to force
to treat gains and losses, you might as well learn Wang Yangming .
The first scientific examination, Wang Yangming failed, and others sighed, but he was calm; in the second scientific examination, Wang Yangming still had no high school, he was still calm and calm; until the third time, he finally got the gold medal, but Wang Yangming was not ecstatic, but smiled and said, "What's the point of celebrating?"
How can everything go well in life? Failure is the most common thing. If you look down on gains and losses, you won't have too many unnecessary worries, and the road for the rest of your life will be easier and easier.
As the saying goes:
"I am lucky if I get it, and I am lucky if I lose it."
Gains and losses will be conserved in the end. All gains and losses will be lost at a certain price, and all losses will return in another way.
There is no need to force it when facing gains and losses, but you must learn to look at it with a normal mind.
If you are lucky enough to get it, then cherish it. If you are unfortunately lost, then you know how to take it lightly.
03: Everything, just let it go
I have heard of this story:
The famous painter Qi Baishi . After becoming famous, many friends came to visit, some wanted to draw for free, and some wanted to make him cheap.
Qi Baishi was embarrassed to refuse and agreed to various friends' requests countless times.
As a result, some paintings are simple but very expensive, while others are complex but very cheap. Even though he gave everyone a discount, many people began to accuse him of his various things.
Later, Qi Baishi suddenly realized that all paintings were the same price since then. No matter how good the friendship with friends was, there would be no green channel.
In this way, Qi Baishi thought he would offend many people, but he didn't expect that everyone would say that he was a real person, and there were only a few people asking for painting, and more and more people who really interacted with him.
There are so many things in the world. If everything forces a perfect result, then the tired person will only be himself.
Many things cannot be forced at all. After all, everyone is an independent individual, and everyone's behavior will have their own impact.
Live your own life focus well. As for the rest, just let it go.
All encounters in life have their own destiny.
No need to force everything, just let it go.
I am Aya, the writer of warm emotions. How lucky I can meet you in this life! Click to follow and let’s learn together!
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