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The reason why villains become villains is their own outstanding features.
We always stand on the side of justice, but we have to be careful about villains.
Many times, we don’t provoke villains, but villains will take the initiative to plot against you. They want to anger you, take you into a trap, and then get some benefits from it.
Turning against villains, breaking off diplomatic relations immediately, making sense, litigation, etc. can easily lead to enemies.
has the saying that you are not afraid of thieves coming to steal, but you are afraid of thieves thinking about it. If you are targeted by a villain, it is definitely not a good thing.
"Soldiers never get tired of cheating". If you want to fight back, you must consider the causes and consequences and solve the problem quietly. The following methods are worth learning from.
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First, wait for a few days to see the villain's intentions and fight back against his "seven inches".
Ming Dynasty writer Ling Mengchu wrote a story: During the Song Dynasty, a poor man from Chong'an County went to the county government to sue a local rich man, saying that the rich man had occupied his family's ancestral grave.
The magistrate received the paper and rushed to the scene. When I dug up the cemetery, I saw an ancient monument recording the names and deeds of the poor people’s ancestors.
Therefore, the magistrate awarded the cemetery to the poor.
After a long time, the magistrate occasionally passed by the cemetery and heard rumors from locals that the poor were greedy and actually deceived the government. The ancient stele was buried in deliberately by the poor.
Obviously, the magistrate made the mistake of "blindly killing the strong and supporting the weak". According to common sense, the rich will show off their power and the poor will be bullied. However, we must also understand that "poor people must have hateful things." Many villains are poor themselves and poorer in their hearts.
If you want to hit the villain back, you must calmly analyze it. If you can't see the situation clearly, wait and talk about it later.
" fox 's tail cannot be hidden", this ancient saying tells us that when a villain reveals his flaws, he will prescribe the right medicine and leave him with nothing to say.
If the magistrate calms down, he will find clues about the ancient monument and hear the speeches of the surrounding people, and the ending of things will be different.
All frauds will be traced. However, in our impatience, we can't see clearly.
For example, in the workplace, villains who want to be promoted will find ways to curry favor with their boss. Inviting guests and giving gifts is his "seven inches". Once he grasps it, the villain's goal will not be achieved.
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Second, keep silent, do not defend against villains, and be "silent is better than sound".
No one will always water a stone, but water a pot of flowers and a vegetable field. Because stones will not grow anything and cannot gain benefits.
Confucius said: "A gentleman is like righteousness, and a villain is like profit."
A villain wants to plot against you, just to obtain some kind of benefit, rather than simply teasing you.
When we were on the verge of , there is a proverb : "If you observe fish in the abyss, you will be inauspicious, and those who hide their wisdom will suffer."
In a deep water, you cannot see fish. Therefore, people who see the water will feel scared and worry that there will be disaster when they go into the water. Those very shallow streams can be found swimming at any time, but they are not afraid.
When you meet a villain, you have to be "deep water". Just like a stone, he doesn't speak, his face doesn't change his expression, and his heart doesn't beat.
No matter what the villain says, what words are used to anger you, or even spread rumors, don’t pay attention to it. The clear one is clear, and the turbid one is turbid. As long as you have a clear conscience, the villain can do nothing to you.
Those "false" charges were clarified in the end.
The villain plots against you, but if you do nothing, the villain will panic, and you will instead "govern it by doing nothing".
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Third, take the initiative to avoid, keep a distance from villains, and let them "sigh".
Across a mountain, a villain will cross mountains and ridges to find you; a villain can take a boat or cross a bridge to find you. But across the ocean, the villain has no choice but to do anything.
A classmate of mine, Xiao Li, works in a local company and is often bullied by his boss.Because of the excellent skills of the classmates, they are deeply loved by the boss.
In order to achieve himself, my classmates went to Dongguan and soon emerged and became the supervisor.
"If you don't leave me here, you will have a place to leave me." When a villain plots against you, don't fight, but secretly look for "next home". After finding a way out, he left immediately, even the explanation was unnecessary.
is meaningless to fight to the death in an unsatisfactory place. Your concessions will make the villain proud and will also make you "rise in another place". In time, it will be clear whoever laughs to the end.
Of course, there are villains in any place. If you cannot maintain a spatial distance, do your best in work and life, try to reduce "crossing" with villains and maintain emotional distance. Your indifference will discourage the villain.
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Fourth, strengthen yourself, gather the positive energy around you, and let it "isolate".
Lu Buwei said : "The fish that swallows the boat, and there are no more ants at the land."
No matter how big the fish is, once it gets ashore, it can be attacked by ant . This is because the fish are in the water and the living environment is in the water. If you lose "water", you can only leave it to fate.
If a villain is very powerful, it is because he is mixed in a certain group, inciting some unreasonable people, and making trouble with him.
If you win over people who are "unreasonable" and use positive energy to influence them, the villain will become "fish that loses water" and have no attack power.
In the twelfth volume of " Two-King Pai's Surprise ", there is a weak woman named Yan Rui who makes a living by singing in a brothel.
A scholar named Chen Tongfu falsely accused Yan Rui of doing something concealed by the local prefect Tang. Zhu Hui'an, an official who had a festival with the Tang Prefect, fanned the flames behind his back.
Therefore, Yan Rui was sent to the cell. But she always insists on justice and is unwilling to "admit her mistakes". Her persistence received praise from a large number of people, and all the injustice was quickly washed away.
You should know that a chopstick is gently broken; a chopstick is firmly held into a ball.
You spend a while to gather positive energy, and there will be less "negative energy" around the villain, a huge gap in power will form, and the villain will retreat.
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The poet said: "The cicadas are louder than quieter, and the birds are singing in the mountains."
If you appear quiet in front of a villain, then you are a forest and a mountain. The villain is a cicada and a bird. Whoever wins and loses will be known by yourself.
Kill the villain and don’t make trouble. Doing so will lead to enemies. Using a quiet way can make the other party helpless. On the other hand, you have the initiative.
Good and evil will be rewarded in the end. I hope the villains will repent in time and don’t wait for God to punish them.
Make every calculation and make profits for a while; take the initiative to make concessions and make profits for a lifetime.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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