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Life will not treat anyone who works hard, nor will it let anyone who takes advantage of others.
The so-called unfair treatment and partiality are just the feelings of people during a certain period of time. If you are patient enough, you will eventually find that everything in this world has cause and effect, and no one can escape from the cage of reality without any harm.
Kazuo Inamori said: "The suffering will not end, and of course luck will not last forever. Don't forget to be proud when you are successful, and don't be depressed when you are disappointed. This is more important than anything else." Ups and downs are life, and ups and downs are life.
Everyone will encounter a low point in life. How to choose to survive the low point largely determines the direction of life in the future.
For most people, being in a low period will produce negative emotions. If pessimistic emotions cannot be resolved reasonably, it will lead to a tragic life.
It is really difficult to be happy in the face of bad things. In some special periods, we can be unhappy, but we must not be motivated.
During the lowest period of life, do the following 4 things well, and luck is just around the corner.
Take the current life seriously
Houses can be rented, but life has always been your own. If a person lives perfunctorily because he does not have his own house, then his life is likely to be covered with clouds.
You must not be heartless or too sensitive. There are two types of people who pay attention to details. One is to work hard to change and make everything better, and the other is to seek trouble and make excuses for a perfunctory life.
As a person, you must have the awareness of "the more adversity you are, the more you must live a special serious life."
Life is already very bad. If you don’t take it seriously, you will inevitably become even more miserable after the vicious cycle.
The only way to temper a person is to setbacks, so don’t be afraid of setbacks, and don’t reject setbacks. Almost everyone’s growth, maturity and success are given by setbacks.
A beautiful life will never fall from the sky for no reason, it depends on accumulation. No matter what environment you are in, as long as you take your current life seriously, one day you will be able to clear the sky with your own strength.
Communicate more with your family, don’t cover up the difficulties
You may not believe it. Communicate more with your family to get rid of the difficulties.
Perhaps in the minds of most people, when they encounter difficulties, they will be blamed or even ridiculed by their family. Therefore, in order to avoid being considered "incompetent" by his family, he refused to communicate with his family, and even acted and lie to maintain his image. In addition to being too strong in self-esteem, people like
have another terrible characteristic, that is, they are unwilling to admit their mistakes.
What Wei Chen said here is not the verbal unwillingness to admit mistakes, but the evasion and stubbornness deep in his heart.
It is human nature to be honest. Whether to admit mistakes with your mouth does not have much impact. What really affects life is the deep thoughts and spiritual cognition.
After encountering difficulties or major setbacks in life, a wise choice is not to hide it. Communicate more with your family, not for financial assistance, but for emotional support.
It is indeed brave to fight alone, but the failure rate of fighting alone is extremely high. Even if your family does not have substantial assistance or care after learning about your predicament, some of the suffering will slowly disappear as long as they are told.
Stop complaining, refuse to put down
Complaints never relieve stress, but instead make the pressure grow bigger and bigger. The real way to relieve stress is to speak calmly and think calmly.
complaining is really a very simple thing. As long as a person can speak and have feelings, no matter how young or old you can complain. After all, who hasn't had any bad things in his life?
A person’s real ability is not to lose his temper, but to control his temper.The so-called control is not just tolerant, but to be able to restrain and let go freely. When it is time to lose your temper, you will never open your mouth easily when it is time to lose your temper.
People with goals and courage are often very tempered, but they will not lose their temper in front of others easily. This temper will be transformed into a motivation to do things and will not give up until they achieve their goals.
can be low but not bad during the trough of life. You can tell but don’t complain.
When a person recognizes reality and himself, he is not far from luck.
Study hard and improve your strength
Tagore once said: "The suffering you suffer today, the losses you suffer, the responsibilities you bear, the sin you bear, and the pain you endure. In the end, it will become light, illuminating your way forward." Life needs to be polished carefully, and life can only be pondered slowly.
No matter what, life is your own, don’t stop learning at any time.
The old saying goes: "Learning is like sailing against the current and not advancing, you will retreat. The heart is like a plain and easy to let go but hard to stop." If you cannot control yourself, you will inevitably be strangled by fate.
People with self-disciplinedness may not be excellent, but excellent people must be self-disciplined; people with strong abilities may not be successful, and successful people must be serious. This is a law and a reality.
You must understand that the trough is just a temporary one, and strength is what you will follow for the rest of your life.
When studying, you must be serious and don’t pretend to work hard. It’s really sad to deceive yourself in life. After all, paper cannot contain the fire. One day, all disguises and concealments will be torn and opened.
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