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In the face of cruel life, everyone is unwilling to be a weak person. What does
strong mean? It is hope, confidence, and a strong force towards the future.
Not everyone can become stronger, and these things are hidden behind everyone becoming stronger.
01 Simplify your thoughts, be less desire, be tough
There are many ideas, and I have really become a fantasy who lacks limbs.
focuses on one goal, and the results may be very different.
People’s energy and time are limited. To hit the bull’s eye, you have to control your desires and pursue them as a success.
is not difficult to succeed, but the difficult thing is that rare perseverance.
02 Affirm yourself, don’t be afraid to suppress
The strong will have stronger ones. When you meet someone stronger than you, you don’t need to be inferior.
Behind everyone, there is a hard heart.
The best way to fight back in the face of others' suppression: do the current situation well, not be affected, and complete it well.
As the saying goes, "Travel the way through mountains and build bridges through water." Everything is not that bad and will eventually be solved.
03 Don’t label yourself
I can’t do
I can’t do
I definitely can’t do it
I definitely can’t do it
I can’t complete this task
and so on a series of self-denials, the most fatal.
No one can do things well and do it perfectly at the beginning, but if you deny yourself from the beginning, you will definitely not do it well.
Self-negation is like a self-curse, and you can never escape the terrible curse.
Believe in yourself is the most critical step to becoming stronger.
04 Add trump card, leave a way out
Prepare for the future
Develop the awareness of deposits, have a little money every month, and it will be a big money over time, and it will be a considerable wealth in the future.
When you are really desperate, at least you still have money to survive.
In your spare time, don’t be too greedy for pleasure. Learn some living skills. It is definitely correct.
The future is unknown, and good and bad things will come, but the premise is that you have to be prepared to fight and add a few chances of victory to yourself.
05 Keep curious and exploratory
Being an ordinary person is simple, but being a person who is full of curiosity about the world is difficult.
Why do some people always see the opportunity for development and find a way out for life, but they are standing still.
The reason is that it is driven by the heart.
Dare to try new things and find differences among common things, it is already a distance from ordinary people.
06 Accept your negative emotions
Don’t suppress yourself and know how to talk to yourself.
Emotions are impulsive devils. Once they are not handled properly, they will ruin big things.
The best way: choose to reconcile with emotions and be a person who lets go.
07 Spend time every day and insist on doing something meaningful
For example: reading, exercising, chatting with family, writing articles
Learn a new skill, read a speech...
has no effect for a day. If you persist for a long time, quantitative change will reach qualitative change.
As the saying goes, "There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women."
As long as a woman maintains her skin condition will not be too bad.
08 Not satisfied with the momentary joy
Only when people keep looking forward can they not be abandoned.
Only by not forgetting your original intention can you achieve the end.
Perseverance and hard work cannot be missed.
The results at present are fleeting.
The future gains are even more exciting.
09 Do not use brute force, just use a thousand pounds
leverage principle, teach us what "clever force" is.
Knowing how to go with the flow can often stop a lot of trouble.
Instead of keeping down and pulling the cart, it is better to look up and take advantage of the east wind to go up against the current.
10 Find some fun in your life every day
Three-point and one-line life, boring, like a machine, losing its original happiness and interest.
When you are free, find some fun things for yourself, such as having dinner, singing, fishing, and watching a variety show, which are all good choices.
In life for adults, making money is not the ultimate goal, and discovering that the beauty brought by life is the greatest meaning of life.
Finally borrow Zeng Guofan ended with a sentence:
" succeeded, and skills were forced."
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