The heart thread of the mother's hand, the wandering son's body clothes. I sewed it tightly before leaving, for fear of returning late. Who says that the heart of a grass can repay the three spring sunshine? I believe everyone is familiar with this song " Wanderer Song ". The greatness of maternal love is really not something that we can repay with simple filial piety.
Women are soft, but mothers are strong. For a woman, children are their bottom line and their biggest reverse scale.
Maybe, if you did other bad things, hurt her, infringe on her interests, she has a good temper, is generous, or is a little weak, and will not be petty with you. However, if you dare to touch one of her children's fingers and dare to hurt her children, if she doesn't fight you, you will be sorry for your mother's identity.
Just like in the movie "Missary Killing", whether it is the kind and loyal Li Weijie's wife Ayu, or the iron-fisted female police chief La Yun, you can all become crazy for your children and do your best to protect your children.
Dong Qing once said this: "Some things are not worth forgiven, and they have nothing to do with being generous or not."
For mothers, it is their duty to not forgive those who hurt their children, no matter who they are, whether they are husbands or in-laws. When we choose to be a mother and give birth to him, it is our responsibility to protect him and not let him be hurt. When he is wronged, he stands firmly by his side and seek justice for him.
I would like to advise men and parents-in-law to not step on the bottom line of children no matter when, especially those elderly people who prefer boys over girls and are biased. You may not treat your daughter-in-law well. Maybe your daughter-in-law is kind and generous and can not care about you. However, once you are not a good grandpa and grandma and hurt your grandchildren, then your daughter-in-law is really impossible to laugh it off.
"I won't go back on holidays, and I won't let me go, just because I beat my granddaughter 3 years ago. As for? I was right at the beginning. She was not a good woman, but my son didn't listen and insisted on marrying her. Forget it, I just married a daughter who couldn't have a son. She still holds such a grudge and is so unfilial, it's really a sin!"
Seeing many fellow villagers reunite during the National Day, their children and grandchildren gather together, but their family was cold. Aunt Shi could only sit at the door of the house and cursed her daughter-in-law.
01. I have never disobeyed my parents' son in 24 years. For a woman, I told us no. Can I like such a woman?
The conflict between Aunt Shi and her daughter-in-law was buried as early as when she first met her daughter-in-law, just because she was not satisfied that her son was so kind to her daughter-in-law.
Aunt Shi has an unfortunate marriage. Although she has spent 38 years with the old public, Aunt Shi can't count how many women her husband has outside. When she was young, she had a fuss, fought and quarreled, but because she had no financial income, she couldn't bear to part with her son and her parents' family did not support her divorce. She had to admit that as long as the man gave money on time to support herself and her son, and did not drive them out, she would not care what the man was doing outside.
couldn't grasp the man's heart, so Aunt Shi focused all her energy on her son and worked hard to raise her son. She revolved around her son for 24 hours. Her son's affairs were from finding a job and choosing a spouse, and when she got home at night, she had to ask about it and asked her son to obey her.
Others, my son obeyed and gave up his beloved school and major in accordance with Aunt Shi's request and stayed in the province. However, on the matter of marriage, my son firmly said no to Aunt Shi, and was unwilling to accept Aunt Shi's arrangements and insisted on marrying the person he liked.
Not only that, when the daughter-in-law asked not to live with her parents-in-law, Aunt Shi was so angry that she patted the table and pointed at her nose to let her get out. Unexpectedly, her son took her girlfriend's hand and got out together. After
, my son and Aunt Shi worked for two years, not going home, not going on a blind date, not breaking up, and not getting married. Aunt Shi had no choice but to agree to the marriage and asked them to buy a house in the provincial capital, while she kept trying her best to find an opportunity to move over.
02. I don’t admit that the reason why I don’t like my granddaughter is not only because she is a girl, but also because of her mother. So what?
The daughter-in-law got married for the second year and was pregnant. Originally, her son wanted to take care of her in-laws, but Aunt Shi regarded this as the best opportunity to live in her son's house. How could she agree? Under Aunt Shi's soft and hard work, the son felt that perhaps the arrival of his grandson could change his mother, so he let go and asked Aunt Shi to take care of his wife and take care of her grandchildren.
However, less than a month after Aunt Shi went there, her son went to her wife's house in person, invited her mother-in-law, and sent her mother back to her hometown.
"When I was pregnant with my son, I had to go to the fields to work, wash clothes, cook rice, cook, and serve my parents-in-law. What did I say? Why didn't she cook? Why didn't she serve me? I hope I will serve her, dream, and make a fuss!"
After being driven away by my son, Aunt Shi not only did not reflect on her mistakes, but instead hated her daughter-in-law even more. She thought this woman was a vixen, which made her son's heart was wasted, and her efforts for more than 20 years were wasted.
The daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl, which made Aunt Shi even more dissatisfied. She kept calling her daughter-in-law a money-lossing product. The big money-lossing product gave birth to a little money-lossing product, which made her son, who was very happy about having a little cotton jacket, furious.
"Mom, do you know whether you don't like girls or my wife? You know. I know that you want to control my life and make me obey you. However, I am not a robot. I have my own thoughts and my own life. Of course, I want to respect you too. But, the premise is that you have to be a qualified mother-in-law and grandma, and be kind to my wife and daughter."
However, Aunt Shi can't do it. Controlling her son's life has long become her obsession, and she has never realized her mistakes and can only find the reasons from her daughter-in-law.
03. She punched and kicked her granddaughter, and she also broke up the relationship between mother and son;
Three years ago, it was also a National Day. Under the bombardment of Aunt Shi's phone, her son and his family of three came back to celebrate the festival.
Aunt Shi originally wanted to seize the rare opportunity to bully her daughter-in-law and treat her daughter-in-law as a free nanny. Haohao exuded his anger and vented his dissatisfaction. Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law ignored her at all, pretended to be deaf and dumb, and ignored Aunt Shi, which made Aunt Shi lose face in front of relatives and friends, and her anger became more and more intense.
She couldn't do anything to her daughter-in-law, protected by her son. When she had nowhere to be angry, her 5-year-old granddaughter was careless and broke her teacup, becoming her punching bag.
She slapped her granddaughter to the ground with a slap in the face, kicking and kicking. The people around her couldn't hold it back until the cry of the child led her son and daughter-in-law over. The daughter-in-law rushed forward desperately, wrestled with Aunt Shi, and was slapped several times before she was separated.
"Wife, let's leave. In the future, we will not go back to this family. As for our family, if you don't nod, I will never let my mother come here. Don't worry!"
Since then, during the holidays, neither my son nor my daughter-in-law came back. Aunt Shi looked for her and made a fuss at her son's doorstep, forcing her son to choose to sell the house. The whole family moved out, and refused to tell her current address, but she just paid 1,000 yuan alimony every month.
04. If you insist on committing suicide, no one will stop you. Just bear all the consequences yourself!
Hu Shi said: "If we want to harvest the good results in the future, we must work hard to plant the new causes of the present. Every seed will be full of warehouses and houses."
is not not repaid, but the time has not come. You planted evil causes and resulted in evil results. If you don't taste them yourself, who else do you want to throw them to?
people are doing it, God is watching, you are trying to die by yourself, no one can save you. If you force your children to escape and ignore them, even if you can defeat them, at most you will get a few hundred yuan in child support, and family affection will not be possible.If you come out of
, you will have to pay it back sooner or later. If you don’t be a qualified parent or in-law, you need to use your later years to pay for your behavior when you get old.
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