Life is a book to be written,
When you first started writing,
Everyone has their own object to write,
can wait until you really finish writing,
will find that
always have people pointing fingers in the process of writing.
Someone said that you should have a gorgeous beginning,
is so exciting,
Someone said that you should follow the steps,
is so appropriate,
Someone said that you should arrange a reunion ending,
This is the mainstream.
After half a lifetime,
When I looked back at the content I wrote,
only realized that
we have already lost our hearts, and
lost ourselves.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said:
"The world is its own after all,
has nothing to do with others."
So, life is just a few decades,
Why always
care about the eyes and words of others,
The rest of my life,
Remember to be yourself well.
01
Be yourself as you wish, don't force
We have always lived in the eyes of others, and these eyes contain a lot of things.
has scrutiny, praise, disappointment, disagreement,
gradually,
We are lost in the vague eyes of
, and
slowly forget our feelings.
So, we began to try our best to listen to the suggestions given by others.
They said that there should be friends,
So we began to work hard to pretend to be in a group;
They said that we should be considerate,
So, we forgive everyone's difficulties;
They said that you should succeed,
So, we worked hard.
But in the end, we found that
We live as everyone expects,
but we do not belong to ourselves.
Zhou Guoping once said:
"Happiness is not to live like others,
but to be able to obey your own inner life ”
So, why not put aside the so-called standards,
listen carefully to your thoughts for a while,
This is not willfulness,
is just trying,
love yourself well.
don’t have to worry too much,
don’t have to worry too much,
throw away the so-called mask of life,
moves with your heart, and make your own choices.
does not expect others to recognize themselves, and
does not force themselves, and it becomes the expectation of others.
02
Be yourself with peace of mind, don't care about
" Qiwu Lun " says:
"Things are inherently true, things are inherently true;
Nothing else, nothing is impossible."
Every coin has both front and back sides, nothing is absolutely correct, and nothing is completely wrong.
Something is true,
Just want it yourself,
Why bother to care about other people's opinions?
We live in the bustling world every day,
Come and go, and communicate continuously,
But there are very few people who really enter the heart.
Since that's the case,
Just be yourself with peace of mind,
Because, those who understand you will naturally applaud you.
For example: Lu Xianren ,
A model came out of the mountains.
From mountain villages to runways,
From wearing sacks to fashion brands,
Lu Xianren relies on his own efforts,
Finally realized the dream that could have been called delusional.
But how could it be smooth along the way?
Not to mention that it is not easy to learn the platform step by alone,
Just ridicule and contempt from others,
is enough to defeat people's inner defense.
Walking cat steps in the field in a sack,
This is the rebellious way in the eyes of ordinary people.
But so what,
He has always been himself with peace of mind,
Even though there are too many people who are full of maliciousness towards him,
But from the moment he really stepped on the runway, all the discomforts of
have become passing clouds.
So, there is no need for everyone to understand you.
People who truly understand you never need too many words.
When you are yourself with peace of mind,
Your applause will never be absent.
03
Be yourself sincerely, don’t compare
We have always lived in a world full of comparison.
When I was a child, I compared my grades;
When I grew up, I compared my income;
got married, compared my family;
I was in my old age, compared my children.
In this comparison that can be seen everywhere,
Many people gradually lose themselves,
He has a lot of time to care about other people's lives,
But he is unwilling to do so,
in his own life, put in his energy.
We have all learned the story of learning to walk in Handan,
have also heard the idioms of Dong Shixi's imitation,
blindly compares and imitates,
never observes yourself seriously,
and the final result is,
just can't become others, and forgets yourself.
So, why always focus your attention on others?
We can admit that others are excellent,
But we must not forget that you are also beautiful.
In the story of the first chapter of the TV series "We've been here", the chief dancer of the dance troupe, Xiaoyan,
When facing a powerful opponent,
has been trapped in other people's strengths.
She desperately chased the other party's footsteps,
can be over, not only exhausted,
also lost its own rhythm.
But later, with the guidance of a friend,
she decided to play to her strengths and avoid her weaknesses.
Use your strengths
to dance your own dance.
Just like that, she gained recognition, and
also had a place in the dance troupe.
There have never been two identical leaves in the world.
Everyone is unique.
finds your strengths and does it seriously.
will have the opportunity to reap the unique wonderfulness of your own.
Everyone's life is unique.
It is not in other people's expectations,
is not in others' evaluation,
is not in other people's lives,
It is only in your own palm.
If you bloom, the butterfly will come.
works hard to be yourself,
doesn't force yourself; don't care; don't compete;
is good at being yourself,
lives out your unique charm.
