There is a hot topic on Zhihu:
"Which moment makes you feel lonely and crying?" There is a highly praised answer below
, which is particularly heartbreaking:
"You have a good news but can't find someone to share. You should be happy, but in the end it turns into a sad person."
Yes, maybe everyone's life will go through such a stage, no one listens to you, and feels abandoned by the whole world.
Gold is easy to get, but it is hard to get one confidant.
Maybe you have a good reputation and know a lot of people,
, but even your family and even your close lover,
may not necessarily be able to say to him whenever you want, and say whatever you want.
Sometimes, we would rather tell ourselves a thousand times and ten thousand times in our hearts than reveal a trace of words to the people around us.
is as said:
"Let me find someone you love to chat with to marry. When you get older, you will find that being able to chat together is a person's greatest advantage."
deeply agrees with it. There is always a time in a person's life that needs to move forward alone.
others have never been there, so naturally they cannot empathize with your sorrows and joys.
can only pass by the mud and wind alone, and face darkness and helplessness alone.
So, please relax,
slowly take the people coming and going in life and learn to be calm in front of loneliness.
May your years be free of ups and no joy or joy for the rest of your life.
