Disguise is a double-edged sword in the hand of survival. Most of the time, camouflage can protect survival.
But as a double-edged sword, if you camouflage for a long time, you will put too much effort into camouflage. Emotions will be hurt by disguise, because people will enter their true thoughts after pretending. When they do too many things that they cannot help but do, they will feel that their life can only live in hypocrisy. Therefore, they feel hesitant and have a negative experience of being unable to fight against reality.
The more conscientious a person is, the more he will hate this kind of hypocrisy, but he also deeply realizes that he cannot get rid of this kind of hypocrisy, because if he shows his pure self to others, it may only bring more trouble to himself.
Even so, this double-edged sword is still held by most people. The red on the blade is in sharp contrast with the graying of the years.
And all of this is a portrayal of most people's fight against reality.
Disguise is like the "sequelae" left by trying to integrate into society.
disguises itself to protect itself, and this protection will inevitably come with a certain price.
People you don’t like, opinions you don’t want to accept, but because of the environment, if you express dissatisfaction, the relationship will break down at first, or you will be used by villains to stir up trouble.
Therefore, if you don’t like, are unwilling, and don’t want to participate in it, you can only pretend to like it, be willing, and want to be "happy" with everyone.
In the workplace, it is disguised as a habit, and for life, it is disguised as a compromise.
When people get used to not expressing their true feelings, they tend to become hypocritical. When they speak and do things, they become purposeful. The smile on their face and the movements of their hands will reveal a smell of catering, which is a smell that was once disgusted to the extreme.
It is also a smell that proves that one is trying hard to survive.
In fact, when people grow up, most of them have a bitter smile when it comes to gradually becoming what they once hated. The bitterness is because they have to choose more and more things. The laughter is because they used to not be able to see through it, but now they have seen through some of it, and it has infected them,
People's requirements for their own survival have become less "harsh" than before, and they no longer fantasize about what they can get through hard work. They know why they no longer fantasize, and they don't want to make themselves bear more unnecessary negative energy. They know that there is no need to stand up and speak out to the world about the troubles that can be avoided with a numb smile.
It is not growth that makes people learn to compromise,
but compromise, which is "hidden" on the road of growth.
Although everyone hates hypocrisy and likes truth, the boundary between hypocrisy and truth is often not a black and white thing.
For example, I have seen some short videos in which people emphasize that they only play the truth, or tell some nice "truths". They always prove overtly or covertly how sincere they are and how real their content is.
But in fact, it is not uncommon for these people to "overturn". After overturning, they will come up with another set of excuses to emphasize how correct their actions are.
People like the truth, so they provide the truth. The truth makes no money, and the hypocrisy behind the truth is exposed. What is the result?
Some are happy and some are sad. Those who buy are not good at selling.
In fact, if we put this Internet phenomenon into reality, it is not difficult for us to understand why people want to disguise themselves. All they say is to cater to interests. Once the disguise is deep and the disguise is used, the benefits and protections that this set of things can bring allow the pretenders to live and live better.
We cannot say that this approach is definitely correct, because there are always some people who will do things that benefit themselves at the expense of others, or even harm others and benefit themselves.
But we cannot say that all disguises should be completely eliminated,
Because many times, the ugliness brought by the truth is destined to need a fig leaf to cover up,
However, in front of the real big things,
this fig leaf will become particularly transparent.
