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Over the years, I have met many people in real life. They refuse to grow up and ignore time at all. Not only do they not walk with time in spiritual growth, but they can even make time ineffective in their appearance.
I think what a natural blessing is that a person can walk with time and grow, mature, grow old and die in time! "Stand in the world" is how people live and live out themselves in this world. Adults should know how to get along with themselves, how to get along with time, and how to get along with the world.
01 What do you think of people?
People who face life face the basic view of people is: people are limited and imperfect. This is a mature understanding, it brings a mature attitude towards life: do your best under existing conditions.
In contrast, the avoider's view or requirement for people (especially themselves) is: it must be perfect, combine the beauty of the world, or it must be perfect at a certain point, and can be superior to humans. The attitude of life caused by this immature view is: demanding perfection and forcing yourself.
02's view of the world.
The world is an environment for people's life and growth. Its essence is uncertain and has no absolute guarantee.
This understanding seems negative, but it brings a positive attitude towards life: human growth is to constantly try in an uncertain world, gain experience, and thus develop an inner sense of certainty.
The opposite view and attitude is: this world must be certain and must be absolutely guaranteed.
result, when encountering life uncertainty, if you cannot get it because of the pressure of absolute guarantee, you will avoid the world and not contact people.
03’s view on time.
The basic understanding of time is: Time will not stop, time is irreversible. People are existences prescribed by time. It is natural to follow time to grow up, mature, grow old, and die in time.
Therefore, those who are in the world accept people, the world, and time and regard them as nature; those who are in the world are forced in these three aspects, rejection and resistance.
A person accepts that he is limited, the world is uncertain, and time is irreversible. He can live a smooth and accessible life; if a person forces himself, the world, and time, he can only live a tangled life. It’s like a person who wants to carry his hair and let himself get off the ground. If he can’t get away from it, he will be in great pain.
People can deeply understand themselves and perceive their lives; through narrative, they can see a richer selves and thus live a more comprehensive life.
The first case is to pursue speed and quantity.
People who are in this situation have a strong sense of time and space oppression. On the one hand, their attention is attracted by opportunities in a larger space, and on the other hand, they have a strong sense of urgency in time. Most of their attention and efforts are directed to external acquisitions (including wealth, status, identity, and relationships, etc.), they are afraid of missing out on opportunities, afraid of "times not coming again", and believe that only by having more quickly can they resist environmental changes and eliminate insecurity. The more you are afraid of losing, the more you need to have.
In fact, life is between existence and non-existence, all matter has birth and death, and external possession cannot be eternal and unchanging. If a person's focus is too much on external possession, the changes and impermanence of possession will cause inner ups and downs, accelerating physical and mental consumption. In the end, the more you are afraid of losing, the easier it is to lose; the more you want to have, the more you miss it. Even if you get it by chance, you will often face greater challenges.
Honor is to be possessed. Having either aggravates a person's anxiety about "fear of losing" or "wanting to have more", or it will breed arrogance and slackness in the subtle influence, which may eventually cause greater losses, which will impact people's physical and mental health and miss opportunities for progress. The so-called "If virtue is not worthy of one's position, there will be disasters" and "the youth will be very unfortunate to be successful" is also the same.
The second situation is to pay attention to the improvement of one's own abilities. Individuals in this case can strongly realize that only by improving their own abilities can they support external acquisitions and allow their competitiveness to be sustained. They have a strong sense of competition and believe that if they do not advance, they will retreat. If they do not make rapid progress, they may be replaced by others at any time. Only by having scarce abilities can they ensure that they are not eliminated and truly have a sense of security. They are believers of lifelong learning, and they will learn a lot and learn widely whether at work or in their spare time. When communicating with others, they also hope to quickly understand and grasp each other's views.
The more you learn, the more you don’t know; the more you want to “pretend”, the easier it is to forget; the more you want to have keen insight, the easier it is to be confused. True wisdom transcends language and characters. Language and characters are just a convenient way of expression and cannot represent all the rich, subtle, changes and the truth of logical self-consistent .
If it is limited to conceptual and logical understanding, they will limit their understanding of the problem to the scope of a certain "reason" and cannot see a vivid and complete reality. Once they face specific problems, they are likely to expose their characteristics of "giants in thought and dwarfs in action", and the distance between "knowledge" and "action" becomes farther and farther. Even if the parties enjoy their "outstanding sense" and "logically self-consistent interpretation ability" in the short term, the bottlenecks of their career and growth exist clearly and objectively.
The third situation is learning and growth that is opened by the mind.
In order to enable themselves to achieve real growth, people who are good at learning will never forget the purpose of learning.
Real growth will definitely make people become more and more beautiful, more and more intelligent, able to understand the essence of problems, solve complex problems simply and neatly, have the ability to make others feel happy, and establish warm and open interpersonal relationships. In such a person, the accumulation of wisdom is accompanied by age.
Life is always in the rising period, and the results given to them by life are multidimensional. The material returns are the natural result of the improvement of ability to bear and spiritual growth. You do not feel tired while having them. Learners like
are often good at constantly reflecting in the learning process. They are not learning for the sake of learning, but always keeping themselves from the original intention of learning, and constantly exploring how to make progress and achieve real growth more efficiently. Learners like
have been working hard to build their cognitive coordinates of the truth of things through concepts, information, knowledge, experience, logic, etc. In this process, they have a deeper understanding and understanding of the "self" who understands the world, and their minds are gradually opened.
The opening of the mind will also make a person's kernel clearer and clearer, thereby achieving growth from the inside out. In this process, people will become more and more wise, more calm, warm and powerful.
They are likely to become towering trees, embrace the soil deeply, and become the mainstay of soil solidification.
They have been working hard and taking responsibility as much as they can, and doing their best to make the world a better place. For society, they are constantly releasing positive energy and the light that inspires others.
What kind of learner are you? What kind of learner do you want to be?
