Faced with the intrigues in this world, most people want to be smart people and refuse to be fools.
Because in the subconscious of most people, only by being smart can you find shortcuts, and only by taking shortcuts can you get high returns at the least cost. Stupid people are often the objects that are exploited by smart people and the objects that are exploited.
So many people look down on stupid people and don’t want to be stupid people.
However, being too smart may not be a good thing.
If you are too smart, you will not be able to catch anything.
An old saying goes: "Smartness is mistaken by intelligence." If a person is too smart, he will think of taking shortcuts and using others to gain benefits. At this time, if a person gets something that is not obtained through his own down-to-earth, his greedy side will easily expand, and he will be controlled by desire and lose his mind.
At this time, I was delayed by the so-called cleverness at the time and even destroyed myself.
But some people don’t look very smart, but in the end they are more blessed than those who are too smart, that is, the saying “Silly people have stupid blessings”. Many people think this is the luck of fools. In fact, this is because they have been accumulating their own blessings rather than consuming their own blessings.
In real life, these three "stupid people" are often blessed people. Don't underestimate them:
01: People who follow the rules, be honest and do not play tricks, and do not take shortcuts
Some people say that opportunities are left to those smart people.
What is smart? It is a person who knows how to judge the situation, flatter and try his best to take shortcuts.
In the eyes of some people, only such people can seize the opportunity, and those who follow the rules and be honest and honest can only suffer a lifetime of losses. They will never have a chance to make a successful career in their entire lives. In the end, they will always be a wedding dress for others.
Therefore, people who follow the rules and honest and honest are often looked down upon by others.
It is undeniable that people who know how to play tricks and take shortcuts will indeed be closer to success than others in a short period of time, but such people will fall faster the faster they climb, because the middle is empty and there is no real material. The higher they climb, the more they shake, and the higher the price they pay, and the greater the price they pay, and the collapse will fall as soon as the wind blows.
and follow the rules and honest people walk slowly, but every step is steadily. Although there is no applause or flowers, they are fulfilled and firm in their feet, able to withstand temptation and wind and rain.
The true blessing of a person in this life is not how much you have, but whether you can reject the temptation that will deplete your blessings.
. People who are down-to-earth are often very clear about what they want, and they also know that only by being strong in their own abilities can they truly belong to them. Such people can often go further and gain more blessings.
02: Do more and say less, don’t discuss right and wrong
The popularization of the Internet has given more and more people the willingness to express themselves and want to express their opinions in the face of anything, but this also means that it will have a certain impact on themselves and the parties involved in the incident.
If you don’t understand something and just make a judgment on the parties based on just a few words or information conveyed to you by others with subjective ideas, then you may become the spreader of rumors and the perpetrator of violence against the parties.
and you have to pay the corresponding price for this.
These people often claim to be very smart, but in their opinion, those who do not speak or participate are stupid and know nothing.
In fact, those who do more and say less and do not discuss right and wrong are not stupid or know nothing, but who can tell them clearly and distinguish them clearly, so that they do not participate. They know that instead of wasting time talking about others and hurting others, it is better to do their duties and manage themselves well, so that they can give themselves a hard armor to protect themselves and live their lives well.
People often cannot see the truth clearly in the midst of troubles, and are easily exploited by others and entangled in their own ideas. However, bystanders are clear and do not participate in it, but they can see the truth better. This is the true wisdom.
A truly smart person is not following the crowd or being arrogant enough to think that speaking out is correct. However, no matter how noisy the world is, he can still maintain his inner determination, have the ability to think independently, and not be swept by the sounds around him. Only people like
can keep their inner purity and manage their own life well.
03: Don’t care, forgive others when you have to forgive others
When dealing with people, no one likes to be cared about, but when facing people who don’t care, they often look down on the other person from the bottom of their hearts. It is not that they are grateful for the other person’s disregard for not caring about others, but instead try their best to use the other person’s unconcerned personality to take advantage of them. People like
often care about it, and people who don’t care about it are stupid in their eyes.
However, the more people care about it, the more uncomfortable they live, unhappy they think they are smart, but in fact they are the ones they are in trouble.
And those who don’t care about it and forgive others seem stupid, but actually don’t want to make things difficult for themselves, and feel that there is no need to waste their time and energy on people or things that are not worth it.
When faced with the same thing, those who care about it may not be taken advantage of by others, but due to care, it wastes a lot of your energy and makes people feel that it is difficult to interact with and affects their popularity.
People who don’t care about it may be used by others, but as long as you firmly uphold your principles and bottom line, others will not be too far-fetched, and you don’t have to waste your time and energy to care about others, avoid falling into unnecessary internal friction, and leave a good impression on others.
In life, as long as you don’t touch your principles and bottom line, many things can be done to forgive others. Don’t care about it, giving in does not mean giving up or giving in, or being stupid, but having a long-term vision and a big picture. Such people’s blessings are often behind.
Many people think that only by knowing how to be sleek and scheming can one be the winner in life.
And those stupid people lost from the beginning.
In fact, life is a marathon. The real winners often know how to preserve their strength and keep their feet on the ground, so that they can reach the end steadily. Those who play tricks, calculate, use others, and think about taking shortcuts can indeed leave others behind far away, but they often encounter elimination in the middle of life, and there is no chance to start over.
People’s blessings are not obtained by relying on superficial intelligence, but are hidden in the transparency of human nature.
See many things clearly, understand the laws of nature, and relax your mindset. When faced with many things, you will be slower, giving people a feeling of silly, which is actually a kind of wisdom in being a human being.