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Irving Berlin once said: "10% of life lies in how you shape it, and 90% lies in how you treat it."
A person's pattern determines the height of life.
People with big patterns have more knowledge and experience and will have different understandings of life. A person with a small pattern, like a frog in a well, can only see the small piece of the sky above his head.
People with big patterns know how to plan for the long term. When encountering things that cannot be handled, they will not panic, but will calmly find a reasonable way to solve the problem.
The bigger the pattern, the wider the road of life will be.
A person has several signs of growing bigger and bigger patterns. These are the ones.
02. Know how to be prepared for danger in times of peace, plan life
Keigo Higashino in " Mission and the End of Soul " wrote: "Everyone has a mission that can be accomplished by himself, and everyone is born with a mission."
People with a big pattern understand their mission and have plans on the road of life.
People are alive, and if they can only see two or three steps away, they can often walk seven or eight miles. If you can have long-term plans, your self-concept will often continue to improve.
When a person's situation is big enough, he will not satisfy the status quo, let alone just pass. Even if you live in a stable state, you will strive to live a better life.
People with big patterns know how to be prepared for danger in times of peace, have higher requirements for themselves, and know how to plan their lives.
When a person constantly improves his personality and learns more useful skills, he will definitely meet a better self in the future.
A person with a pattern always keeps his mission in mind and will not slacke in his life. I am even less willing to waste time and maximize my own value because of anything.
When a person's pattern reaches a sufficient height, he will persist in a comfortable life, not forget his original aspiration, know how to use the power to develop himself, and constantly surpass himself.
03. Not afraid of danger is a kind of ability
People with a pattern are often more capable of dealing with emergencies.
Not afraid of danger and not panic in encountering problems is a kind of ability.
They will not panic in the face of danger, but know how to calm down and quickly find a way to save themselves.
People with big patterns, no matter what they encounter, will understand that in the future life, this is just a small goal or a small obstacle. So, he will not be too optimistic and affirm himself.
People with big structure can control the overall situation, reverse the decline, see details that others have not noticed, and find a way out in desperate situations.
No matter what situation you encounter, don’t complain or give up, and face the problem with a strong heart. Having such a person will add infinite possibilities to life.
People with larger and larger patterns will become stronger and stronger in their hearts.
No matter what happens, he will not retreat at will and know how to face difficulties.
People who are not afraid of danger will not panic, complain or argue when encountering problems, but will devote themselves to solving problems. By solving problems, continue to strengthen yourself.
04. Know how to follow the trend and strive for stability, and strive for adversity
. In fact, it is not scary to walk slowly. What you are afraid of is taking the wrong path, and even more afraid of taking the wrong direction. You are moving forward at full speed and going further and further on the wrong path.
As a person, you must always maintain a clear self-awareness in order to reduce mistakes.
Napoleon said: "If you cannot achieve great things, then do small things in a great way."
People with big patterns have a clear understanding of themselves. When you are proud, don't be proud. When you fail, know how to strive forward.
They understand that as long as they keep calm, they can handle all the small things in their hands and lay a good foundation, so that they can have the potential to do big things.
If you give up when encountering setbacks and difficulties, it will always be difficult to make progress.
People with big patterns regard adversity as a test and are good at striving for adversity; when they are in good times, they are not satisfied and know how to constantly seek stable development.
On the road of life, the smaller the situation, the more likely people are to be eager for quick success. Those who seek quickness will easily fail after making a mistake.
People with big patterns know how to move forward steadily and have clear goals.
No matter what happens, don’t make progress in good times, don’t admit defeat in bad times, seek development on the basis of stability, step by step, and climb up steadily.
05. Summary
The bigger the pattern, the better life is.
People with big patterns have broad vision and can see even further.
will also make your own life more accurate. They know what to do at which time.
Their ability to deal with problems will gradually increase, be able to stand alone, and will not hide behind others and hide from the wind and rain.
When they become more and more mature, they will know how to accept their negative emotions, actively reconcile with themselves, and cheer up and start a new life again.
When a person has a clear goal, he will not be lost in good times by victory, and will still seriously think about the future development direction and what his own shortcomings are; he will also not question and give up in adversity, believing that he has strength, but the time has not come.
People with big patterns tend to see more comprehensively and become more stable. Moreover, you can also make yourself calmly and constantly strive for yourself and become a better self.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
