In life, everyone needs to have some abilities, whether it is the ability to work, the ability to learn, the ability to socialize, etc.
And what is a person's most advanced ability?
01 Insensitivity
Sensitivity is like a double-edged sword. While giving people rich perception, it means that it is easier to be invaded and fall into a swamp of self-denial and internal mental consumption.
Therefore, sometimes, a person is happier if he is a little "blunt".
Of course, the "blunt" here is not dullness or dullness, but the tenacity and endurance that can face difficulties, and the sudden enlightenment that can be seen in the face of external noise.
In this world, no one has the obligation to consider you all the time and take care of your glass heart everywhere.
You can't control the messy sounds outside, nor can you control other people's opinions.
The only thing we can do is learn to examine and overcome things that are difficult for you to let go from another perspective.
For adults, setbacks are the norm, and smooth sailing is an accident. Only by quitting sensitivity can you move forward lightly.
In life, instead of handing the emotional switch to others, it is better to put your limited energy into yourself.
He lets him be strong, and the breeze blows across the hills.
When you are a little dull, you will cultivate a layer of golden bell for your life, be fearless and look at life with a smile.
02 Saving capacity
People reach middle age and take heavy responsibility. Your savings are your confidence in fighting the wind and rain and your strength to turn the tables against the wind.
Savings here are a vision of life.
Save money
Only when you are self-sufficient in money can you be self-sufficient in life.
Starting from now on, plan reasonably, don’t overdraw, and know how to control yourself. Every penny you save will be the confidence to fight against life.
Save health
Health is a person’s greatest wealth, and saving health is the most affordable and wisest investment.
Life is not easy. Only by staying full of energy can you withstand the difficulties of the world.
Save ability
When people reach middle age, they are never the end, but a new starting point; age is never the boundary, and growth is never limitless.
Only by constantly updating and evolving yourself can you always maintain absolute competitiveness in the industry and see a broader world.
Especially at the moment, the more diligence you make, the more bargaining chips you make; the more skill you make, the more choice you make.
Every Jedi counterattack in life is a superposition effect brought by knowledge.
03 Ability to be alone
Alone is a luxury for adults
There is a kind of solitude that is deliberately arranged by oneself. Staying away from the hustle and bustle is to find a time that belongs only to you and to understand all the emotions in your heart.
People are social species, and socialization is inevitable, but low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude.
"Month of Alone" is the best luxury for adults. It is not about showing off anything with it, but about it allowing us to recognize our true thoughts in a timely manner and enjoy life.
Alone is an advanced lifestyle
Alone is not necessarily lonely, but the result of your own choice.
The graceful scenery of life is not an affirmation from outsiders, but a calmness and calmness in the heart.
The loneliness deep in my heart cannot be eliminated by relying on contact with others.
Keep the inner tranquility, get along with yourself, do not get stuck in your heart, and do not get confused in your emotions.
Source | Insights, Ten Points Reading, etc.
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