text/Hua Yaoguan
I heard a sentence: "Living is not for anything else, just for living itself."
What is living is for? It has been a difficult problem since ancient times.
Some people say they live for their dreams, some people say they live for others, and some people say they live for themselves.
But no matter what you live for, we always have a goal in our hearts, so we can lead us to the other side of time.
At first, people were spotless white paper, but after experiencing society, our white paper would be painted with beautiful pictures with thick ink and colorful colors.
We have seen through many things in the world and have long been unable to return to the simplicity of the past.
However, simplicity is always the most advanced state of a person. It is the essence extracted from complexity and is also a proof of a person's mood improvement.
So, the simpler the women in life, the less simple they are.
Hegel said: "The greatest truth is the simplest, and the simplest people are also the rarest."
Entering society, we will have greed in our hearts and resentment and gratitude for others. This is a ties in the world, and it is difficult for ordinary people to give up.
The people around you seem simple, but they all have hidden scheming.
They are harmonious and friendly to you on the surface, but they are all thinking about your own little things in their hearts.
So, people always say not to get too close to others, and keep a corresponding distance from anyone you get along with.
When the distance is close, you will see the deepest darkness in the world; when the distance is far, beauty will blind your eyes.
A truly smart person will make himself confused, will make people's hearts simpler, and will keep everything in life simpler.
Simple people are the people closest to happiness.
Because they don’t have to worry about things that have not happened yet, and they won’t let suffering occupy all their lives.
When everything becomes simple, people will become satisfied at the same time.
A woman’s life can be simple or complicated.
Some women always want to catch something, but in the end they picked up sesame and lost the watermelon.
They want a successful career, a sweet love, a sensible child, and... everything.
Maybe it was because in ancient times, women could only take care of their husbands and children, so that in this relatively open society, women began to become more independent.
They began to live from living for others to living for themselves, and they had a fire in their hearts that wanted to vent.
When facing career, they are intrigued; when facing love, they are suspicious; when facing friends, they compete and show off.
It seems that they are troubled by worldly affairs.
Some women may not be able to understand the simple meaning in their entire lives, while some women may suddenly realize one day in the future that their hard work is nothing more than nothing.
What is the essence of life? In fact, it is simplicity and happiness in the end.
Sober women understand that they are the most reliable person in the world.
Compared to running around outside, it is better to enjoy the quietness of one person alone.
When you get along with others, you need to pay attention to other people's ideas. If you accidentally touch other people's principles, you may also cause trouble for yourself.
It is not difficult to find that those women with simple living circles live happily, and they always have a smile and a rosy complexion.
Do they say that they don’t understand the rules of society, but they just have simple minds?
is not the case. Those who are willing to give up the prosperity of the world and overcome the temptation of the world are truly not simple.
They clearly know that the world is prosperous, but they still choose to live a simple life because they understand that everything is nothing, and everything in the world is not brought by life and death. The most important thing for people to walk in this world is happiness.
The circle that I once tried hard to squeeze into was actually always out of place with you.
The sun and human hearts are the things that cannot be looked directly in the world. When your eyes turn red, your heart turns black.
There are many rules in this world, but there is one rule that is very practical, that is: what you gain will lose, and what you lose will also be gained.
Life always has ups and downs, but compared with ups and downs, a plain life is the most beautiful.
Because in plainness, you have learned to give up; when you understand to give up, you have mastered the true meaning of happiness.
The relationship between people is very complicated, and it is even more complicated to maintain the relationship.
When the hearts of two people are not together, you are just self-indulgent.
Instead of running around in various relationships, it is better to maintain your life steadily.
You will suddenly find that after making the circle simple, you have not lost anything.
Your friends will still be your friends, and they will not leave you.
And those relationships you want to force to retain will eventually be broken with you.
Many things in life cannot be forced, because forced has no meaning.
Make your life simple, restrain all your desires, and the light of happiness will shine on you.
Although a person’s heart has become simple, life is actually full.
For the rest of your life, be a simple woman and a happy woman.
