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The world is often unreasonable, but it always pretends to be reasonable.
love scenes talk about money, but they always pretend to be unwilling to talk about money. On the desktop, there is a fresh and unrestrained look on the table. Under the table, the abacus is clattering.
Some colleagues in the company hate you, but they also pretend to like you very much.
Just as you look down on some relatives, however, you have to pretend to love them.
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Don’t look at the world of people, and the world is full of things. In fact, there are only four things in the world:
The poor dream of getting rich.
Rich people seek excitement.
Men chase women.
Women want to be queen.
To put it bluntly, there are only these four things.
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From the dinner party, you can roughly observe a person:
Order a lot of dishes and can't finish them in the end. Generally speaking, this is a generous person. Usually, this kind of person will be better for himself and others. The opposite is true.
After eating, packing leftovers, never ask others and take them away by themselves. Such people are usually stingy, selfish, and stingy.
others are picking up food, and TA turns dining table , regardless of others' slightest. Such people are also very selfish and very selfish.
Put the chopsticks into a large soup plate to pick up meat, which is equivalent to washing chopsticks and letting others eat your saliva. Such people usually have poor tutoring, uneducated, and have low personal quality.
The cleaner you chew the bones, the more frugal people are, and it is likely that they are stingy, and vice versa.
There is a little left on the dining table and you have to finish it even if you are forced to eat it. This kind of person is usually very poor in his original family, and he is afraid of being poor since childhood. This kind of person is usually very small in his own country.
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Lao Feng shares some experiences about men's dressing:
The suit is not hot and wrinkled, so it would rather not be worn. A suit must be straight. It is ugly to wear a suit that is not straight. It is better not to wear a suit.
Four magic weapons to destroy the image: nose hair, earwax, dandruff, and eye boredom. You can never have these four things. Look in the mirror more and pay attention to cleaning.
Don’t wear trousers with sneakers. Similarly, don’t wear leather shoes when wearing sports pants. Very ugly.
The simpler the belt leader, the better. The belt leader is fancy and fancy, and it is so terrible that it is ugly.
shirts are recommended to choose " Oxford Spinning " fabric, which looks high-end. Many people cannot wear shirts with high-end flavor. The problem is that the fabric is not good, and the shirt is not good. When purchasing a shirt, pay attention to the instructions and choose "Oxford Spinning".
shirt must be tied to the waist of the pants. When wearing the shirt, the hem does not tie to the waist of the pants. It is a typical old-fashioned dress. Please avoid it.
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The media back then did not objectively report the entire truth of the Ma Jiajue case.
The truth is actually this: Ma Jiajue When he gathered to play cards, his classmates told him about some of Ma Jiajue's privacy in terms of "sex" in his conversation, and even made fun of it. This made Ma Jiajue angry and angry. The more he thought about it, he became more angry and determined to kill someone to vent his anger.
So, don’t laugh at people’s privacy in terms of "sex", it will really cause death. If you accidentally know someone’s privacy in terms of "sex" and pretend that you don’t know, that is right.
Remember: As much secrets as you know, there are as many dangers as you are.
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The world of the rich is the world of people lifting people, the world of poor people, and people stepping on people.
3 gives an example: You go to the official account, Toutiao, , Douyin and other platforms to read netizens’ messages. More than 80% of those who leave messages are poor, and they are destined to be poor forever, and they will never know why they are poor.
The reason is as follows: they only see people's shortcomings and cannot see people's advantages. Then, based on the same thinking model, for an opportunity to change jobs or start a business opportunity, they only see the disadvantages of opportunities and cannot see their benefits. In short, their views on anyone and anything are basically negative. This is the typical characteristic of the poor. The so-called "people step on people" is just one of the manifestations of this inferior character. Character determines destiny, and this inferior character determines: poor people will achieve nothing in their lives and will not have any good results.
The thinking pattern of rich people is just the opposite: no matter what people and things are, they always stare at their strengths and find shortcomings, and they directly ignore them. Why should they stare at their strengths and not at their weaknesses? Because: Other people’s shortcomings have nothing to do with me, but other people’s strengths can be used for me to learn and use. This is why, the world of rich people is “people carry people.”
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Give gifts to people, and give them as soon as they are given. You should be downplayed and don’t emphasize in person how valuable your gift is, otherwise the other party will feel pressured after listening to it and become disgusted with you. Then your behavior of giving gifts will be counterproductive.
In fact, the level of ghost intelligence in the world exceeds your expectations. Most people will find ways to inquire about the price of the gift you give after you leave.
So, when you give gifts, you should be calm and gentle. There is no need to say how expensive your gifts are, so high-end.
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Whether online or offline, the more customers ask about your products and services, the lower the transaction rate.
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pies that fall off in the day are often traps.
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Only your parents really love you.
Your lover, partner, and spouse are always calculating the various pros and cons and gains and losses of being with you and not being with you. This is the truth. I won't tell him the average person.
When you live to my age, you will understand that the little thing between men and women is just that love songs are beautiful, but in essence it is actually boring and boring.
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Don't say D is your "best friend" in front of A, B and C.
Otherwise, the listener will feel that he is not valued.
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Others treat you to dinner, so you must not bring your friends, colleagues, classmates, or relatives, otherwise it will be offensive.
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Marriage Certificate One of the main functions of is: when breaking up, you can kill the other party.
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The current love scene is bad, people have no love, and they have too many calculations. However, unexpectedly, everything in the world is changing, and human calculations are not as good as God's calculations. The naked eye often makes people misunderstand. Therefore, when people look for partners in (especially women) , they will face four traps:
Trap 1: rich people may become poor. (most of those who are entrepreneurs who are in a glory and then go bankrupt or go to prison)
Trap 2: Those who are poor may become rich. (Genes will change, ordinary parents may give birth to excellent children. During the period of rapid economic development, many poor children have counterattacked)
Trap 3: thinks that they are not excellent and may become very excellent in the future. (Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and when you get along for a short period of time, you may make mistakes in your judgment of people)
Trap 4: looks excellent, and you will find 100 shortcomings after being together. (Far from a distance, is a demon)
Sometimes, too many calculations will cause Qingqing's life to be lost.
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If you look at a opposite sex and look at the shortcomings of TA, then we can almost certainly say: There is no opposite sex in the world that will make you not regret it.
But if you look at a opposite sex and focus on the advantages of TA, then you will find that sometimes a opposite sex you don’t like will become cute.
One thought paradise. One thought of hell.
Buddhism says that "appearance is born from the mind", which means.
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The son said: "A gentleman seeks for himself, and a villain seeks for others." This sentence means: When encountering unhappy things, a gentleman criticizes himself and reflects on whether he is wrong. A villain will think that it is someone else's fault and he will never be wrong.
We change this sentence to a few words: "The wise seek to yourself, and the foolish seek to others." It is also true: if something unpleasant happens, smart people look for reasons from themselves, and stupid people always look for reasons from others.
Why do you need to find the reason from yourself? Because that can force yourself to keep improving.
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The people you know are usually polite to you, but in fact, 30% to 80% of them hate you, but they don’t show it, you just don’t know.
Yes, people are not actually living in the truth, but just living in fantasy.
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No matter how young a man or a woman misses a high-quality opposite sex, if you can't find a better person or the same degree, it will be difficult to get happiness.
The old saying goes, "It is easy to go from frugality to extravagance, but it is difficult to go from extravagance to frugality." This is the truth.
This is why, especially beautiful scumbags will harm many people in the world, because it is difficult for those who are abandoned by them to look down on ordinary opposite sex anymore.
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Why are people selfish?
Because of selfish genes, there is a greater chance of survival and reproduction.
In the long history of human evolution , the genes that are not selfish have been gradually eliminated. Generally speaking, only the selfish genes survive, so people are selfish.
In fact, people in all countries around the world are selfish, but because of the different degrees of system, culture, belief and involuntary, the degree of selfishness is different.
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If you want to get close to someone and get in touch with him, but don’t know where to start, there is a simple way: ask the other party for professional questions, and then, you buy some gifts and thank him.
For example, you met a girl at a dinner party. She is a researcher at the Botanical Research Institute. If you want to win her over, then you can ask her privately what potted plants to plant at home to absorb formaldehyde . After asking for advice, you bring a gift and thank her, so that it is easy to get familiar with it.
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In the early days, Chinese people met and greeted, "Did you eat?", and the original meaning was: If you didn't eat, I have food, I will give it to you.
The earliest meaning of "Did you eat it" is like this.
However, today, "Did you eat it?" has become a empty talk.
We say " people's hearts are not as good as the old ", this is an example.
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God hit you not to make you sad, but to make you wake up, grow up, mature, and progress.
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If someone is introverted at dinner, he doesn’t speak very much, and you take the initiative to say a few words to him, you can effectively gain his favorable impression of you.
In fact, this principle applies to any occasion: actively talk to people who are not familiar with you, and you can gain the other party’s favor for you at an extremely low cost.
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A person respects you in his words and deeds not to make you happy, but to protect himself. Ancient ministers spoke respectfully to the emperors, which is a typical example.
