With a calm relationship, I endure the vicissitudes of life and the passing of time
Time is like a polished and grinded. After thousands of times of gathering and separation, I realized that what
people need to cultivate is actually just a normal mind like a breeze and bright moon, shallots and tofu .
It is not that ordinary mind is indifferent, but that it does not preset, does not cater to it, and does not disobey its original mind. When treating anyone, you can be relaxed and free, real, real, natural, and unpretentious, and treat each other calmly. No matter whether the muddy water is sinking into the mud and sand, I wash the stubborn stones from the stream and see the bottom of the clear water.
The friendship between gentlemen is indifferent.
Zhang Chong and wrote a couplet on their 70th birthday, "I am very cold and have a confidant, and spend my life in a slight song."
Cold is quiet and indifferent, which means that you use virtue as your neighbor and make friends with your writing, which is tasteless and tasteless, but calm and comfortable.
Sometimes think about it, a person who seems to be a little "unkind" in the eyes of others is precisely the greatest respect for people.
A person who suppresses himself, flatters others, is versatile and good at everything, is as sleek as a knife to cut tofu, so smart that there is no gap. It seems warm and kind, but it is overflowing with some worldly style and cunning.
A lot of people first put on various titles and hats when they meet, and then they are as if they are inseparable as a barrier, making your three views unconsciously distorted under the advocacy of the big and void, and finally drag you into the sea or burn into ashes.
People like this are extremely lively in front of people, and things in the future are desolate.
The difficulty of getting along with people is not how enthusiastic it is, but how to be calm and composed.
The so-called "leave three points to your mouth", thinking about it before and after speaking, racking your brains, thinking about ways to agree and obey.
Finally found that if you dare to be abusive, he will dare to be abused. He will let him have a tree of flowers bloom, but he will grab your entire mountain. Such interactions will eventually lead to colder people's hearts and weaker joy.
Consolidation not only makes your efforts cheap, but will even evolve into the greatest evil.
Some people, if you don’t stab him, they will never stop. Good deeds and evil are one step away. Unprincipled consent, accidentally make your embarrassment become an appetizer for others’ desires.
doesn't have to live from other people's perspective. For people with eye disease, there are cataracts in everything they see.
A person full of energy, throws water into stones, disturbs the order of others, and constantly destroys the beauty in people's hearts to vent jealousy and cold emotions, maintains his own unbearable psychological balance, and obtains the pleasure of tearing. Such people's hearts are too mean, too despicable, too dark, and dark.
Mr. Pingao said that his friend was an iron piece, nail, screw cap, , and small pin that sucked from magnet . As long as he wanted, any dust in the world could suck it.
Appreciate the bloody men in the Three Kingdoms. Guan Yu is not bold or clever, but it is his right hand and never leaves him.
Warring States Lian Lin's friendship, Li Meng's love in the prosperous Tang Dynasty, true friends, do good deeds without anyone knowing, no matter how big the wind and rain or how many separations and reunions are, they will not be separated.
What I really like to cater to is not my friend, but a gust of wind that hurts my eyes.
This is true in the world. Anyone who fights for no reason will be separated for no reason.
There are two types of people in the world. There is one kind of person who always hopes that you will be successful, some people will always cheer for you, some people hope that you will live a fairy tale, some people will wait to see your jokes, and a relationship without looking up and respect will not survive the vicissitudes of the past year. Only by having a calm and comfortable relationship can you pass through the years.
Every encounter in life is ultimately passing by. In other people's world, it is just a scattered warrior and a passing man. First of all, people must be smooth.
In the dew-like encounters, you hugged others enthusiastically, but you perfunctorily blamed yourself. A person who does not have the ability to please yourself is the flaw in human nature.
The normal heart is like a wisp of blue smoke from a golden beast, a sip of thin tea brewed by purple clay , breaking away all the prosperous glitz and removing all hypocritical enthusiasm. The roar of the tiger and the dragon roar, and the water falls into the rock, is the greatest sincerity in interaction.
Author: Kangna
