"No one is happy to be idle, it is not just about doing nothing."
—Lin Yutang
Life is rare in life.
Liang Shiqiu also said that people are most like a person when they have free time.
But the so-called "idle" is not boring and idle.
If a person gets used to doing nothing, he will accomplish nothing in the end.
As the ancients said: People will have distracting thoughts, and people will have miscellaneous things when they are idle.
A life that is too idle is a disaster.
I was idle, and a person was ruined
I often heard people say:
"The fastest way to waste a person is to make him idle."
agrees deeply.
Once people are idle, they are like deflated balls, and it will be difficult to get puffed up again.
Do you still remember " Chinese Koi " Xin Xiaodai ?
In October 2018, she was drawn by Alipay and won a prize of 100 million.
Such good luck of "get rich overnight" has made thousands of netizens envious.
At that time, Xin Xiaodai also posted on Weibo to joke that he "didn't he have to work for the second half of his life?"
But who would have thought that after just 3 years, the situation took a sharp turn.
Some time ago, Xin Xiaodai posted a video on a social platform, saying that he was about to get through.
She said:
"I will be thirty next year, but I have no money or job, and I found out my tendency to depression not long ago."
It turned out that after winning the award that year, Xin Xiaodai immediately quit his job and started his own global journey.
, in order to exchange these so-called "prizes", Xin Xiaodai spent all his savings of 200,000 yuan and even lost his credit card.
Not only that, after three years of idleness, she found that she had already adapted to the relaxed and idle rhythm. Now she could not keep up with this ever-changing society at all, and various job interviews were not going well.
sighed, and couldn't help but think of a sentence that Roman Rolland once said:
"The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom."
Many times, leisure is not a blessing for one person.
On the contrary, when you are idle, people will only become lazy.
is too lazy to change, and life is stagnant, and the whole person is ruined.
A life that is too idle is a disaster
The old saying is often said, idle people have more worries, lazy people have more illnesses.
A life that is too idle will really make people decadent.
Because once you get used to being comfortable and want to turn it around again, it will be more difficult than going up to the sky, and in the end it will only completely destroy your life.
Some time ago, a friend of mine resigned.
No need to get up early to catch the bus anymore, he slept until he woke up naturally every day.
After waking up, except for watching games, they just play games, order takeaway when they are hungry, and continue to sleep when they are sleepy. Life is so comfortable.
But over time, his life has changed a lot.
people become lazy, their work and rest are getting late, and they slowly turn into black and white.
Sometimes when I wake up, it’s five or six o’clock in the afternoon.
Others came home from get off work every day, and he was sleepy and his day's life had just begun. After a period of time, he found that 's long rest did not make himself better, but his whole body became worse and worse.
Gibran Once said:
"The desire for comfort will kill the passion of the soul."
Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
A life that is too comfortable and you are happy all day long is the easiest to lose your fighting spirit and make people worry about gains and losses.
Faced with the arrival of a crisis, I naturally lacked the courage and strength to fight it.
The so-called idleness will cause waste, and it will destroy people.
On the road of life, never leave your life idle. Only by keeping yourself busy is the cure.
As a person, you should not be too idle
Shen Congwen There is a famous saying:
"I am most afraid of being idle in my life. When I am idle, I lose all the meaning of life."
His student Wang Zengqi I once described Shen Congwen in this article: In winter, I can't catch fire in the house, so I can surround it with a quilt, and I still write it constantly.
In his later years, he was unwilling to be idle, so he compiled " Research on Ancient Chinese Clothing " with reference to a large amount of information.
is exactly what Nietzsche said:
"Every day that never dances is a life-and-defeat."
In this life, only in the busy life can one better show oneself and realize the value of life.
When you start to focus on one thing, those trivial things will be automatically ignored by you. Without anxiety and entanglement, life will slowly move upwards.
Therefore, don’t consume, don’t waste, don’t get entangled.
Only by learning to relax and live every day carefully, and allowing every minute and every second to be effectively utilized, can
truly be comfortable and relaxed.
Life is short, and the years are for no reason.
I hope that after many years, looking back at the path you have walked, you and I can be like what I wrote in "How Is Steel Practiced":
"When we look back on the past, we do not regret wasting our years, nor are we ashamed of being mediocre."
Someone said:
"Anyone who has great prospects, has made rapid progress, and has gone far is tempered by being busier, harder and harder than others."
Many times, being busy is happiness. It gives us no time to experience pain and allows us to feel life more realistically.
So, don’t choose comfort when it’s time to be diligent. Life won’t act with you. If you want to be exciting, just strive.
After the storm, you will be grateful to yourself who is working hard now.
Click "Looking", I hope you and I can control the rhythm of life and create infinite possibilities in a limited time.
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