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Many people always think that when they do something, the environment has the greatest impact on it.
, but I don’t know that what really affects the result is your own mood and attitude.
The old saying often says "Smile to life". A warm smile may not only bring good mood, but also good opportunities.
Smile is a simple action, but in reality, when pressure comes one after another, who can laugh out loud with peace of mind?
However, you need to understand one truth: although a smile does not have to exist in every corner of life, at certain moments, it can save you from danger.
Maybe you have heard such words too; people who love to laugh will not have too bad luck.
The fact is true. If you always face the world with an optimistic attitude and can face it with a smile when encountering any difficulties, then I will tell you: Even if you are at the trough of life, your smile can help you find noble people.
Maupassant wrote in " Lifetime ":
Life cannot be as good as you imagined, but it will not be as bad as you imagined. I think human fragility and strength are beyond my imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with just a word, and sometimes, I also find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.
Really, in this long journey of life, you will encounter many incredible things, some of which make you feel very happy, but some also make you feel difficult in life.
Don’t be afraid when encountering difficult things. There is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome. Your mentality and emotions determine the direction of things.
Especially learning to "smile" when dealing with these things will make you more and more lucky.
When dealing with conflicts with others, show a kind smile
In life, we are inevitably inseparable from conflicts with others. If we use quarrels or violence to resolve them whenever there is friction with someone, then not only our own mood will be affected, but the surrounding environment will become worse and worse.
Xu Xin is a strong woman who knows how to deal with people very well. When she was a small employee, she always had small quarrels with her colleagues around her.
But at that time, the boss particularly valued Xu Xin and would like to mention her a lot in private, so slowly, Xu Xin no longer faced her colleagues with a cold face, and her attitude changed a lot.
When conflicts occur, they also smiled kindly to others as much as possible. Because of her changes, more and more colleagues support her around her, and Xu Xin was finally promoted successfully.
From Xu Xin, we can see a very obvious example. If you always like to be stern when dealing with contradictions and misunderstandings, it will only make the misunderstandings sink deeper and deeper.
So you can face it with a smile and try to show your kind smile to the other party. There is no need to make the situation worse.
When you learn to deal with these small setbacks around you with a smile, slowly, more and more people will support and tolerate you, and you will also begin to be lucky.
When dealing with problems, give herself an encouragement smile
Xu Xin said that although her position is not low now, she still has countless troubles that need to be solved every day.
At the beginning, Xu Xin also liked to complain, and every time she saw the file to be processed, she was frowning.
She was in bad health during that time, always stayed up late and did not complete her work.
Later, Xu Xin summarized herself at work. She felt that she had always felt irritable, which was a matter of mentality.
So gradually, she no longer complained. Every time she encountered difficulties, she tried to give herself an encouragement smile. With this positive attitude, Xu Xin adapted to the work rhythm and made her boss trust her more.
Indeed, you are frowning and have a pessimistic and negative attitude towards anything. Even if you complete this, you will not feel relaxed.
So when dealing with the troubles around you, try to give yourself an encouragement smile and don’t pay attention to other people’s eyes.
When you cheer yourself up psychologically, you will find that the problem facing you is not unsolvable. Not only that, you will also gain more from it that you have never obtained before, and your luck will become better unconsciously.
When dealing with interpersonal relationships, smile more
A person who often smiles on his face will make people feel close, while those who often have fierce faces will make people subconsciously stay away.
In interpersonal relationships, smiling is a good social means. If you smile more at others when you need to socialize, then people around you will slowly take precautions against you, reduce the sense of distance, and take the initiative to get close to you.
If you treat others coldly when dealing with interpersonal relationships, even if your starting point is good, it will be difficult for others to accept it.
Most people are cautious when they first date. If you give people the first impression of being "cold and indifferent", then the other party will respond to you in the same way, which is a huge failure in social interaction.
Therefore, when making friends, don’t be stingy with your smile. When your smile is contagious enough, even if you don’t say a word, it can make people feel good.
Sometimes, opportunities arise in these tiny details, so when dealing with interpersonal relationships, keep a smile at all times, let people around you take the initiative to approach you and give you an olive branch.
Time Emotional Class:
At any time, as long as you are still smiling, the world is not too bad.
Learn to "smile" when dealing with some key issues, which can allow you to accumulate good luck without realizing it. When the right time comes, this luck will burst out and bring you opportunities.
The good luck in life comes from yourself, and a smile is a way to generate positive energy for you.
A person with strong energy in his body can make a comeback at any time even if he falls into a trough.
So, I hope that in your future life, you will always remember to face these problems with a smile and fill your life with positive energy. Gradually, you will become a person favored by the God of Luck.
