John Shoals once said: "There is no incurable pain, no inextinguishable sinking, and all those who have been lost will return in another way." There is always a state of balance between gain and loss. What we get is destined to lose; what we lose is what we have already gained.

2025/05/0209:17:34 article 1733

John Shoals once said:

"There is no incurable pain, no inexhaustible sinking, all those who have lost will return in another way."

There is always a state of balance between gain and loss.

What we get is destined to lose; what we lose means what we have already gained.

However, there are still many people in life who fail to see through this truth, or are addicted to the arrogance of gain, or are sad in the pain of loss, leaving themselves trapped in the past.

In fact, life is a practice. Before reaching the end, everyone will make mistakes and regret them. But it is precisely because of the wind and rain that practice is meaningful.

Face the world calmly and calmly, this is a wise life.

The most important thing in facing the dilemma of life is the mentality.

After all, no one is perfect, we can always easily encounter problems that trap ourselves.

blindly avoiding cannot solve the problem. On the contrary, a negative mentality will only make things worse, while a positive mentality can make things simple.

If you have a positive attitude, you can be calm and indifferent when facing the world, not be obsessed with the past, and not be afraid of the future, and you will naturally have more time and energy to deal with the current situation.

There are so many things in the world. Assuming that we have to divide our energy into everything, we don’t have much energy to focus on what is finally.

There are many things that don’t need to be too important. After all, if a person wants to achieve the desired end, he must go lightly and know how to simplify the complexity.

There is another possibility for life except life and death. Therefore, don’t let your life turn into darkness too early.

Master Hongyi Li Shutong once said:

"Life is rare to be a gathering, only there are many separations."

Gathering, separation, gains, losses, success or failure, these are the norms of life. Regardless of whether we are willing or not, life always forces us to accept and to experience it.

There are always many people who are worried about parting, sad about loss, and heartbroken about failure.

In fact, meeting is a kind of fate, but isn’t separation a kind of destiny? Because both parties cannot find a suitable way to get along; getting is a kind of luck, but isn’t losing a kind of destiny? Because I don’t know how to cherish it; success is a kind of pride, but isn’t failure a destiny? Because it cannot meet the requirements of success.

Life is your own life, and your choices are all in your own hands. The only thing you can change is yourself.

So, if you can't live a good life, the only reason is yourself. No matter how many complaints you have, it will only make you feel painful and make you lose the chance to succeed.

A wise life requires us to face the world calmly and calmly.

Life is full of temptations, life is full of traps, if you are not careful, it will be a deep abyss.

People in the game often cannot see the environment they are in or the dangers hidden in the dark. They allow desire to control themselves and temptation to control their lives. In the end, one step is wrong, every step is wrong.

In fact, everything is because we are not calm enough.

We always compare our lives with others inadvertently, but how can we compare the two completely different lives fairly? How can one compare the success of one person with the failure of another?

We always desire too much, but we don’t have enough strength to support it, so we spend the years in self-pity and the rest of our lives in complaining about the world.

When a negative mentality gradually controls our lives, our hearts will sooner or later become extremely impetuous, and a little temptation will easily make us fall into the trap.