In the long river of life, each stage has different tasks and missions, and will also have different perceptions and growth. To sum up, there are three great opportunities to save yourself. If you can seize the opportunity, you can successfully achieve the transition and move to another height in your life. Let's see if you grasped it?
1. The young man has passed away love. When you are young, it is a critical period for you to continue to study, increase your knowledge and skills. If you can grasp it, you can have a better starting point and foundation than others.
Just imagine, although the family conditions are different, in the same class, everyone learns the same knowledge and teaches it with the same teacher. Over time, everyone gradually widens the gap, and the grades, hobbies, and skills in all aspects are very different. The fundamental reason is whether you work hard and whether you are diligent.
Confucian said: When you are young, your blood and energy are not fixed, so be careful of it. At this time, in addition to diligence, the most important thing to take is the stimulation of love and color. Don’t go astray because of ignorance and momentary impulse. Many young people's great time has been wasted on games, entertainment, love, etc., and they will definitely regret it in the future.
2. Mid-life difficulties. The middle-aged stage can be described as a link between the past and the future, and is an important turning point. Because there are old people above and young people below, you must take good care of all aspects in order to achieve a smooth transition.
Once you fail in entrepreneurship, fail in investment, fall into a property crisis, or encounter accidents, major diseases and other safety and physical crises, or encounter an affair with one spouse, fall into an emotional crisis, etc., it is enough to make people fall into trouble. At this time, it is not just oneself who is affected, but a big family. All family members will be affected and encounter major setbacks.
If you want to successfully overcome the difficulties of middle age, on the one hand, you must know how to control your gradually expanding desire for power, money, eroticism, etc., and on the other hand, you must pay attention to maintaining your health and maintaining your life, controlling the rhythm of life, and making it stable, so that you can be at peace with your body and mind. This requires time and energy, and you cannot be paranoid and lose sight of one person.
3. Send your heart in your old age. Old age is a great time to live your life. At this time, you should reduce your desires, guard your heart, and truly be pure and natural, so as to achieve a good state of harmony between people, people, things, and people and the environment.
But some people can't let go of their obsession with fame and fortune, and even have to go too far, or because of the laziness and neglect of youth and middle-aged people, they have to continue to work hard for their livelihood and retirement. In such a miserable old age, they can only blame themselves and cannot blame others.
