Today is the last day of the National Day holiday. I saw a short video of venting emotions in the morning, so I also had a few words to say.
If a woman can only be happy if she gets attention, understanding, acceptance, or even tolerance from others, it will be difficult for her to gain true happiness. Even if this man can meet all her current requirements, because of human nature, her "new requirements" will soon appear, and external seeking has an end. In this world, except for your parents, no one will accept and meet all your requirements unconditionally and endlessly. As a woman, you must understand this even more.
Whoever sets happiness as a condition and then relies on this condition to whom she will live forever in the illusion of her own construction.
Looking for tranquility is an manifestation of the inherent lack. Some people think that "staying away from the noise" is actually just a way to escape reality and enjoy life. She will not get peace in her life. In the words of Mencius , this is called "seeking fish from a tree". Because everything you seek outside has an end.
Tao Yuanming The first sentence of Mr. "Drinking": "The hut is in the human world, without the noise of carriages and horses." The true tranquility deep in the heart cannot be obtained by seeking outside. It is an aura formed by the combination of causes and conditions, and a kind of charm exuded from the inside out, just like "the green mountains cannot be blocked, after all, flowing eastward". The majestic and magnificent momentum, any external force cannot be stopped, and is a tranquility that cannot be disturbed by an external force. It’s not that you can have the realm of Mr. Tao Yuanming when you hold a handful of wild flowers; you can have the arrogant temperament of Miss Yan Rui when you plant a few baskets of sparse vegetables in the fields and raise a few little white rabbits, and you can live a pastoral life! Then, in this way, more than 500 million farmers in China have already lived a comfortable pastoral life. Where do so many migrant workers come from in the city?
Stranquility is in the heart, not in the wild. Only by cultivating the fence and planting chrysanthemums in my heart can you have poetry, painting, wine and tea in real life. Only by planting flowers in my heart can you have the tranquility and elegance of living in the downtown area. I am calm and free in my wandering in the garden.
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