Human nature is the most complex thing in the world. No matter what your identity is, when you are in it, there will always be a person or thing that will be deeply engraved in your heart. Maybe you think this is the greatest gift God has given you, but only by truly understanding human nature can you enter the most complex part of this world. Today we will talk about the topic of human nature. I hope you can learn some principles of life and life through this topic.
01 People who truly understand you are not people without feelings
Human nature is a complex thing. Some people may really regard you as too important, so you must be vigilant about them and always be wary of them in case the other party targets you behind the scenes. Some people exist because of love and have an emotion because of love, but this feeling is different from other feelings. It contains more human elements. So if you want to be a person who is loved and protected, then there are many people in this world who are worthy of our love. But at the same time, these loved people also need more effort and tolerance to repay us, which is also a kind of emotion that makes us live in this society longer and deeper. People who truly understand you are not people without emotions, but know how to do emotional things so that they can become more mature and rational in life and dealing with things.
02 only want to use others, but do not know how to understand and respect others
"Everyone has times when they are not understood. When you try to solve problems with violence, or want to maintain your existence in a kind way, the other party will definitely complain." "When you try to use violence to protect your own interests, the other party will definitely be angry. When you want to use other ways to maintain your existence, the other party will definitely not be at ease." "Human nature There are also differences between good and evil. If a person just wants to use others to achieve his goals and does not know how to understand and respect others, then he must not be worthy of love. "
03 only wants to ask for it, but does not know that giving will bring harm to you
human nature's greatest weakness is greed. Many people do not know how to repay kindness and will only ask others for benefits after they get benefits, but they do not know that such behavior does not really bring benefits to you. I once read this sentence: "You must reject someone who does not benefit you; you must not treat him any good to him, as long as he still loves you, he will always be nice to you." This sentence may sound clichéd, but it is very true. Just like in the TV series " My First Half of Life ", Luo Zijun said: "I will not treat others well again in the future." It is precisely because of the concessions made by Luo Zijun at the last moment that Wang Jing suffered a lot, which led to the scene in the finale.
04 Selfishness and stinginess are the weaknesses of human nature
There are no unselfish people in this world, but we don’t know how to be selfish. The reason why we become selfish is that we will show different sides when facing different situations. When facing injustice, we can treat everyone else fairly, but when facing injustice, we choose to escape. Many people in life are always accustomed to isolating themselves, and no one else wants to care about anyone, even if they are themselves. When they encounter some difficult things around them, they often have a common idea: I can’t do it! When facing such a group of people, we should treat them with a tolerant, peaceful and humble attitude.
05 It is better to repay grievances with kindness. It is not worthy of
We always like to be petty with others and like to date people who are linked to our own interests. But in fact, it is not that difficult to get along with people. If we keep worrying about whether others are good or not, then you will never know what the other person really wants. In fact, repaying grievances with kindness is the best way to get along: if you love him, you must give him corresponding rewards, and our greatest happiness actually comes from yourself. As the Tao Te Ching says: "If you have virtue but no righteousness, you will be invincible."
