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Poverty is a state of life. It's like walking, falling a big hit. It is covered in scars and unbearable pain, but in the end it is still necessary to stand up, heal yourself, and move forward bravely.
Everyone will encounter challenges in life, maybe fail, maybe become nothing.
When people are poor, they fall into a trough, which will lead to their lack of confidence, face tremendous pressure, fall into depression, and do not know how to adjust their emotions.
When negative emotions accumulate in your heart, it is easy to become like to talk and complain. When talking to others, you can easily express your inner dissatisfaction with the world.
Master Xuecheng said: "What you say is actually you in the eyes of others."
When people are poor, they must learn to control their mouths.
When life is in poverty, don’t tell others the following three things.
02. When you are poor, don’t tell others how much debt you owe
In life, suffering and happiness are with you. No one will suffer all the time, and no one will be lucky all the time.
Some people think that their life is hard because they are already deeply trapped in pain, questioning themselves, and completely neglecting the advantages they have.
"Crying poor" is a manifestation of spiritual poverty. Because he has too little confidence in himself and is full of grief. When encountering problems, you will only express negative emotions and don’t know how to get out of the predicament.
people always have low places. One of the ways to refuse to stay away from others is: don’t cry when you meet others.
A person with negative thoughts is difficult to change himself in reality.
Likes people who cry when they meet others, they are depressed in negative emotions, cannot find their own problems, and it is difficult to transform into growth, so they can only stand still.
People who like to tell others how much debt they owe will not only make others feel that they are incapable and look down on him, but also make themselves hint again and again: I am poor and owed a lot...
Don’t always give yourself psychological hints about this negative emotion, but should tell yourself: "I am born to be useful, and my daughter will be dispersed and come back."
When we regain our confidence and are full of positive energy in our hearts, we will develop in a good direction.
On the road of life, don’t always tell me your own difficulties, because very few people will sympathize with you, but most people will think you are a loser.
people will always seek profit and avoid harm in their subconscious mind. If you have no value and are unwilling to cooperate with you, then the future will be more difficult.
03. When you are in a low point, don’t express dissatisfaction with whom
Shakespeare said: "Don’t say whatever you think, you must think twice about everything."
A person who falls on the road of life is often caused by various reasons.
Don’t blame others, don’t shirk your mistakes to others. No matter whether you have money or not, don’t express your dissatisfaction with others.
When people are poor, they should take good care of their words and not cause trouble.
After falling into poverty, if you want to turn over, you often cannot rely on one person's ability to do so. If you want to unite everyone, you must take the initiative to take responsibility and find problems from yourself.
If you don’t clarify the causes and consequences of things, don’t lose your temper with others easily. Don’t say bad things behind your back and leave a bad impression on others.
When you are at the trough of your life, learn to think more about how to solve problems and learn lessons and experiences, you can gain more and grow.
When you take care of yourself, you will not feel that the status quo is difficult, but will overcome difficulties with everyone and unite, and everyone will shine brightly again.
04. No matter how poor you are, don’t say depressed
Life is like a boat, sailing on the water, and you need to rely on yourself more on yourself.
Sometimes the wind and waves will lead you Yang Fan, but sometimes you need to avoid the edge.
people go to the low place, and more importantly, they need to rush to themselves.
When you feel that you are in poverty and it is difficult, don’t say discouraged words, because others will only look down on you even more.
There is a " Xianglin Sao " written by Lu Xun. The child was taken away by a wolf, which is a very sad thing.
kept repeating her suffering. The people around her sympathized with her at first, but later they hated and disliked her and were unwilling to contact her again.
Because everyone's life is not easy and they don't want to be infected by her negative emotions anymore. If Xianglin Sao was freed from the past, she might have a completely different life.
In life, no one knows that the future will usher in pain and blows.
However, when encountering difficulties, people are poor and say depressed words, they cannot solve any problems. Saying discouraged words will make your mental internal friction become more and more serious, making it difficult for you to live your future life.
When people are poor, they close their mouths that are discouraged and instead say words to encourage themselves, so that they can have more courage and strength.
Even if the difficulties in front of us make us dark, then use words to bring ourselves a light.
On the road of life, no matter whether there is anyone or not, you will eventually have to rely on your own strength to stand up again.
keep working hard to make yourself stronger and fearless of the bumps and bumps on the road ahead, so that you can live a better attitude.
05. Summary
On the road of life, please learn to rely on yourself and not give up on yourself.
Jia Pingwa wrote: "So, don't talk about the shortcomings and faults of others, and don't care about your own shortcomings and faults; don't be envious, don't resent, and experience it with your own life."
When people are poor, they often speak softly, don't complain, and don't have to shirk responsibility. A tragic fate can only be changed by yourself.
When you cannot change the overall environment, you can only choose to change yourself.
When you have an optimistic attitude and language, positive action, and make more plans for your future, you will find that there are still many roads to happiness and success.
When we fall into poverty, learn more actively. To enrich our hearts, we will have strong mental and action power. Only by becoming strong can one get out of poverty and become a better self.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
