In life, we will inevitably encounter setbacks, face difficulties, obstacles and various changes. How should we deal with it? If you think God treats you unfairly, if you think you are too lucky, if you feel that you are living too wronged, you might as well read the following five sentences carefully, and I believe you will suddenly become enlightened.
1. Life depends on your own feelings, not in the eyes or mouths of others. Everyone’s life belongs to you, and you have the right to manage it well. No matter what, it has nothing to do with others. In fact, there are many weaknesses in human nature. Everyone is selfish and self-centered. They clearly only care about themselves, but they always comment on others.
I am full of envy and jealousy when facing others' badness. When facing others' badness, I will despise and ridicule. In fact, no one can tell the truth about how to go about life and how to live life. Everything is up to us, and your inner feelings are the most real.
2. Don’t pretend that you have many friends, you will eventually start a life of independence. A person is indispensable to his companionship, but with too many friends, it is easy to drag down himself. Our truly valuable and meaningful time must be spent with ourselves.
You know clearly what you are doing and where the future is. Therefore, you don’t need to follow others too much and waste your time and freedom. Please learn to get along well with yourself.
3. Don’t expect too much from yourself, please accept your mediocrity. People are always prone to being too ambitious and always think that they can do something earth-shaking.
In fact, this is not the case. Most of us are very ordinary people, but ordinary does not mean failure, nor does it mean unhappiness. A truly enviable life is to dedicate ourselves and benefit others' lives. Such a life is happy and successful. It doesn't matter whether he has money, fame, or status, even in a very ordinary position, he can achieve extraordinary achievements.
4. Your kindness must be wise and sharp. Kind people are the most blessed. But kindness does not mean indulgence or weakness. The standard for judging good and evil is whether it is "altruistic". If it is truly altruistic, then beating and scolding is also good.
You should not blindly claim that you are doing good by meeting the other party’s requirements. Because it may be because of your indulgence that the other person's life was ruined. Is this doing good or doing evil? You must use wisdom to judge.
5. People must never break through the bottom line, this will cause you to fall into the abyss. As a person, you must have a bottom line and the most basic principles. If you break through this bottom line, no matter how much you have made, how much effort you have made, or how many achievements you have achieved, you will be burned and fall into a deep abyss without any chance to make a comeback.
