We must dare to face the imperfect selves and admit our imperfections so that we can improve. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. Everyone is imperfect. Some are personality, some are appearance, some are body, etc. Accepting your imperfection requires overcoming inferiority complex, maintaining an optimistic attitude, working hard to improve yourself, and maintaining perseverance. No matter how confident and perfect a person looks, he will have inferiority or imperfections he doesn’t want to face. We can make up for other shortcomings with our strengths, and we should know that the pressure of inferiority is the driving force for developing advantages. Improve self-confidence, believe in your own abilities, and believe that you are not a weak person who is no worse than others.
excerpt Ye Zhou "Battle yourself"
Everyone wants to be a perfect person. We always hope that we are more beautiful and moving, because beauty not only brings people sensory pleasure, but also enhances self-confidence.
Everyone is independent. It is difficult for one person to accept another, but it is even more difficult for one person to accept himself. We are often dissatisfied with ourselves, upset and boredom for our shortcomings, and try every means to hide it. When facing ourselves, we often fall into fear and regret and cannot extricate ourselves.
However, I am not like other objects, and I can throw them away at any time if I don’t like them; I am not the same as others. I get along with each other when I get along, and break up if I don’t get along, and there is no need to compromise. We can't throw ourselves away unless we end our lives. You are always entangled with yourself. Whether you are willing or unwilling, when you are satisfied, it will be with you, and when you are not satisfied, it will not leave you. This is the helplessness of life.
Some people accepted themselves very early, while others could not accept themselves until death. Although we know that appearance and personality are just like life, we cannot choose freely, however, dissatisfaction with ourselves always tortures us. Ugly, we dare not speak loudly, walk with our heads raised, and face the gaze of others. In front of beautiful people, we feel more instinctively inferior. I always hope that one day, the magic mirror will suddenly appear and tell you that you are the number one beauty in the world.
There are many ways to accept yourself. Some people do not clarify their own strengths, but try every means to induce others to say them. Although they are just different people, the mystery is very profound. What you say is called self-boasting and showing off; what others say is "objective" and "seeking truth from facts". Smart people are the best at using this trick, and they will ask the other party to say something when they are done, you are so humble.
We find it difficult to accept our own shortcomings, and we are even more reluctant to be pointed out by others, especially in public. Every time the leader finishes his report, he will say something like "Welcome to criticize and correct me", so you must not take it seriously. This opinion cannot be "referred" or "correct". It can only be regarded as none, preferably not originally. Otherwise, you will definitely get many "little shoes" to wear for free.
A smarter one is: people are more wise. Only when you know, you realize that you have a problem and change it without knowing it, this is the best way.
A wise thing to do is to keep silent. Don’t tell others that "I still have a little self-knowledge" like that. That is actually deceiving yourself, blindly trying to change yourself, seeking fullness and more. Introverts hope that they can be cheerful, extroverts hope that they are deeper, straightforward people hope that they are more sleek and sophisticated, and sleek and sophisticated people hope that they are simple and happy, which is meaningless.
Don’t hide yourself as a person, just talk about it and feel the same way, be confused, just live a muddle-by-one life, don’t do your own thing or be stubborn. To accept yourself is essentially to understand yourself. By accepting our strengths, we will be more confident and accepting our weaknesses, we will be more rational. Be open and honest, open and peaceful, unpretentious, and not show off.
Understand our own strengths and weaknesses, understand that what we want to do may not be able to do, and understand that what we do may not be able to do it well, we will be confident, self-controlled and self-improvement. Only by accepting your true self and treating yourself objectively can you be kind to yourself and life.
