The foundation of your inner strength is that you have strong cultural foundation and social experience. Other people's words will always be other people's life insights! ! And your life is different from others. You should have your own life insights, rather than being just a listener forever! !
It is really important to be strong inside, I have experienced it myself! Since I fell in love with reading, the part I felt hurt was that my heart was small and my heart was not strong enough! When I am strong enough inside, I will live happier and happier than before. And people will become more and more calm and steady. Only those who are strong enough in their hearts have the ability to make life run the way they like, rather than live as others expect.
A person, the wealth and strength in his heart are the capital to live a good life. Otherwise, all external things will not make up for what you think is a shortcoming in life. Then we allow everything to happen and accept it calmly.
Please remember that life is just 30,000 days short, and we will have countless games and choices. But no matter what difficulties we encounter in life, we must face and accept them honestly, because extreme honesty is invincible. Allow frustration, allow regret, allow regret, allow separation, allow us to have the pain of life, feel the whole life in this experience, anyway, life will get better and better, and we will eventually find our own track.
May you fight with the world for many years and still be full of hope. The rest of our lives will last, and I hope we can all be strong and shining inside. mutual encouragement!