If you meet someone who is willing to help you, learn to be grateful. When you meet people who hate you, don’t hold grudges; when you encounter setbacks, learn to face them bravely; when you encounter happiness, enjoy it to the fullest.
The more people experience things, the more they understand the complexity of human nature and how difficult it is to understand a person.
Kindness is valuable, but kind people should prevent themselves from being hurt by others. Kind people tend to think too well of others, sometimes causing themselves to be hurt everywhere.
Kind people should leave a certain amount of room for themselves when doing things, and don't think too highly of others. We should analyze the problem from both sides, and don’t always see the good side.
A netizen shared his experience
He has worked in an IT company for many years. Because the department has not raised wages for a long time, many people have great opinions. Colleagues in the entire department discussed joining together to find the boss. If the boss disagreed, they would quit and resign together. The next day, his colleagues went to see his boss with him. Unexpectedly, several colleagues who had known him for many years sold him out, saying that it was all his idea. Because of this incident, the boss was very dissatisfied with him and finally had no choice but to resign and leave. The department did get a salary increase because of this commotion, but it had nothing to do with him.
People often tell all kinds of lies. You must be able to understand that the only person you can believe the most is yourself. If you habitually think too well of others, you can easily get yourself hurt and suffer losses.
I still remember a female classmate of mine in college. She was a very nice person without any scheming. Her father and mother were still serving prison sentences for their involvement in pyramid schemes. She never told anyone about this. Maybe she felt too aggrieved, so she later told her family affairs to her best friend, whom she considered the best, and asked her to keep it a secret. Unexpectedly, the whole class knew about it the next day, which made her extremely uncomfortable during that time, and many people looked down upon her. After that, she thought about committing suicide, but with the efforts of counselor , she was able to get out of this predicament little by little.
Being betrayed by the person you trust the most will do you the greatest harm. At any time, you must weigh yourself and decide what you can tell others and what you cannot tell others. In everything, you should leave yourself a little way out, and don't overestimate your position in the hearts of others.
After experiencing a lot of hurt, kind people often dare not open their hearts to others, and they can only bear a lot of pain silently. I only have loneliness as my companion every day, and I want to break away from the shackles again and again, but my heart shrinks again and again.
People's nature is sometimes selfish. Don't think that everyone is a good person. Take a good look at yourself and don't trust others too much, so as to protect yourself from harm.
When you are kind to someone, you should be calm and know how to be grateful. It is better. It doesn't matter if you are not grateful. Our kindness will only be open to those who know how to be grateful in the future.
Kind people should learn to protect themselves. Although there are still many good people in the world, it is also good to be more defensive. Kindness is valuable, but don’t let it down. We must learn to use a wise heart towards kindness and a kind heart towards the future.
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I am Xiongxiong Yuanyuan, everyone is welcome to pay attention and forward!
