People are very complex creatures. Everyone is a different individual, with different personalities, emotions and thoughts. Even twins with the same appearance have completely different personalities. Therefore, when people get along with others, they will inevitably encounter inconsistent habits or behaviors. At this time, everyone needs to learn to tolerate and understand others, because in many cases when we tolerate and understand others, in fact, others are also tolerant and understanding. We, this is mutual.
In a group, we often need this attitude to deal with. For example, in our dormitory, our reading career for more than ten years has to go through many roommate changes. When we first met, it wasn’t so good, but after we got along for a while, we became more familiar with each other. Everyone’s personality or habits in life gradually appeared, and it might be accepted by others sometimes. No more. But if we don’t tolerate and understand, it’s not a good thing for us or others.
I don’t know if you still remember the Ma Jiajue case more than ten years ago, the bloody case that shocked the world, and I still feel unbelievable and terrified. Ma Jiajue is a Yun University student from Guangxi. Although his family conditions are not good, his parents have also given him great love. A few days before the incident, Ma Jiajue and his roommate played cards together. During this period, his roommate Shao Ruijie thought he was cheating, so he quarreled with him, and finally said some hurt, ridicule, and denial of Ma Jiajue.
Ma Jiajue did not believe that he was such a person in the eyes of these friends, so he moved to kill. For this reason, he also specifically checked the method of killing people, and finally bought a hammer. But the hammer disappeared inexplicably, he did not give up, and once again went to buy another and other tools of crime. Tang Xueli from the other dormitories suddenly came to their dormitory to live in on the same day, and thus became an obstacle to Ma Jiajue and was regarded as the first target. Shao Ruijie was also killed by Ma Jiajue when he returned at night.
Ma Jiajue was dealing with blood stains the next day,It happened that Yang Kaihong, another roommate, came to him to play cards, and was eventually killed by him with a hammer. The matter was not over yet, Ma Jiajue went to another friend in the dormitory Gong Bo and asked him to come to his dormitory under the pretext of playing cards. Gong Bo was also killed by him. After he took care of the four people and hid them, they hurriedly fled to the station and took a train. But in the end he was arrested by the police and sentenced to death.
There is a survivor in this case. He is Ma Jiajue’s roommate Lin Feng. He also brought obstacles to Ma Jiajue like Tang Xueli, but in the end he was fortunate not to be killed. He was actually Ma Jiajue. The little kindness still left in his heart let him go. It is said that Lin Feng once extended a helping hand to Ma Jiajue and helped him bring back food after he knew he was ill. Although it was just a small effort, Ma Jiajue was still very grateful to him and didn't act on him.
In fact, Ma Jiajue is a person who knows how to be grateful. He also cherished the friendship with these friends, but the bad attitude of his friends caused him to have extreme psychology, thus embarking on a road of no return. From this incident, we also understand that we think that small things may be big things in the eyes of others, so we should pay more attention to our words and deeds when we get along with others.
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