Frugality in the family, and frugality in cultivating virtue. One porridge and one meal should be thought of as hard as it is, and half a thread of thought is always difficult to remember.
As I can remember, my parents often nag in my ears: Don’t waste food, just have enough clothes to wear, don’t compare with others, save some money...
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. I’m working and nagging even more. I need to save money, and I can’t spend money big, save some savings for myself to prevent unprepared needs, etc.
At that time, my consumption philosophy was to spend money if I had money, and I could just repay it on time if I had no money. Money was earned rather than saved. But these views have completely changed until they are unemployed, started a family, and after the epidemic.
has never had the habit of saving money, which has led to my work for several years and still being a moonlighter. I paid my salary on time every month until I didn’t feel anything. For a period of time, when I moved from north to south, I seemed to be “unacceptable to the local environment” in all aspects. It took me two months before I had no income, I gradually realized the seriousness of the problem.
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In the days when I was unemployed, the most direct need was to find a job soon. Looking at my increasingly shriveled pockets, I was in panic for the first time. But this panic disappeared after calming down again, and I didn't think about how to reflect on this experience.
Only after getting married did I realize the importance of saving money. When my peers were already buying a house and a car, I was still shy when I was still feeling ashamed and powerless for the first time.
Some people think that the clothes are just right and there is no need to buy a brand. Just make skin care products suitable for you, and there is no need for HaiLan Mystery, Estee Lauder , Helena ... consumption level must match your income level. Even if I use Huabei, , white stick this month, and even distinguish the things I like, I have to pay for this impulse consumption for a long time.
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20 After the epidemic, I found that the industry I am engaged in has higher requirements for designers and has also requirements for age. After thirty years, I have become a mother and have not continued to improve myself. My career path seems to be becoming more and more limited, and there is always a crisis of being eliminated.
still has so much income, but expenses are gradually increasing. Opportunity is even more unworkable, down-to-earth and slow. Once again, I realized that strength should coexist with thrift.
Saving is not stingy, nor does it require you to pay for the human nature within your ability. Keep your own small circle and yearn for big circles, but it is definitely not just a step to reach the sky.
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20 I felt the heavy feeling of economic pressure for the first time that year, although the pressure has increased and unabated in the past two years. But the relatives and friends around them are still buying a house and a car. It turns out that the only one who is financially struggling is always the only one who is financially struggling. Others may have the talent for financial management, or they may have developed the good habit of saving, or they may be better at making money. No matter which one is worth pondering.
Don’t forget to be hungry when you are full. Don’t spend money without restraint. If you can’t buy anything you can, don’t buy it. If you can save it, save some. When you are surrounded by enemies, it is not that others are unwilling to lend it to you, but they are just afraid that you will be unable to repay it.
I hope you have realized some truths in other people’s stories, and never awaken it in your own experience. Knowing how to cherish the present, live every day well, and engraving this simplicity in your bones may really lead to the true meaning of life.
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If you only have enough money to buy a bun, don’t worry about that bowl of noodles.
The meaning of thrift is too important to life, not because it is noble, but because it means that happiness can come from very small things - Qijinnian