psychologists, perhaps the most famous in society is Freud . One of Freud's most important contribution to psychology is that he helped us recognize the existence of " subconscious ".
What does the existence of the subconscious mean? That is to say, sometimes, a person may do something, and he himself doesn't know why he does it. He might think he was just a slip of the tongue, or just another mistake.
But in fact, deep down in his heart, there is actually a motivation, that is, the deeper self, which actually did it on purpose. So sometimes what a person says incorrectly may be the truth that he really wants to say in his heart.
But his consciousness certainly doesn't want to say it, and it's not good to say it. However, his subconscious mind wanted to say this, so he said it with the reason of a slight tongue. For example, there was a former president not long ago. He originally wanted to say that Russia invaded Ukrainian , but in the end, he said that it invaded Iraq . So the country of Iraq happened to have been invaded before, and the invasion was the former president. So actually I think this is very likely because he said the truth in his subconscious, and his subconscious mind drove him to tell the truth. He also knew that what he had done before was invading Iraq, which was actually no different from what he accused others of doing now. His consciousness is definitely unwilling to say this, but his subconscious mind made him have a slip of the tongue and tell this matter out, which is very interesting. If we analyze it from a psychological perspective, you can often find it. What motivation does it drive him to do this thing in his subconscious mind? You may find that he lets him tell the truth in his subconscious mind, which actually meets his own needs. For example, in the past few years, there was once a person in the entertainment industry who repaired his computer, which led to many photos of his computer being exposed, which were photos of him and many different female celebrities going in-depth "communication". This was a sensation at the time. He must have been unwilling to do this because this incident caused great damage to himself, so he had to quit the entertainment industry. But I actually guessed that this may be what his subconscious mind wants to do. Why does the subconscious mind want to do this? I guess his subconscious mind wants to show off, that is, if the photo is discovered by others and if the photo is posted by others, it is not sent by himself anyway. In this way, many men will envy him--he is very lucky. So I also show off myself and say, "You see, I like it more than the opposite sex, which shows that I am very masculine." This may be a motivation in his subconscious mind. Of course this is my speculation. It may not be true. We just said that it is possible. So when we see, someone seemed to accidentally send a sensitive message that he originally wanted to send to someone, "piah....~" to the group and show it to everyone. So is this possible? Does he have a motivation to show off in his subconscious? is to let you see, I can get this relationship with some opposite sexes. Is there such a motivation? Well~ It is possible, from the perspective of psychoanalysis , but I also want to remind you that our colleagues in the psychology community can only know that it is possible. But we should not believe that it must be this motivation. Maybe there are other motivations in the subconscious mind, or maybe there is no subconscious motivation at all, and he is just a mistake. This is not impossible either. So We understand psychology to let us see more things, but we should not think that what we see must be correct. If we are very sure and believe that it must be a subconscious motivation, this actually makes us those of psychology more likely to make mistakes than ordinary people. This is actually a bad study of psychology, right? is, it is possible; but not necessarily. Author: Zhu Jianjun, official account: Neiming Online School