Hello everyone, I am family education instructor Guo Ma ~
1 " The new crown has cured my infertility anxiety!"
A colleague of Guo Ma has been married to his wife for 5 years, but has never had a child.
Before this, he had always said that he was not in a hurry to have a child, but some time ago, he broke down and said: "It's not that we don't want a child, but we haven't been able to conceive. We've done all kinds of tests, but we just can't conceive!"
An old man cried so much that his face was filled with tears. The scene was indeed quite sympathetic.
In the first two years, they were really not in a hurry to have a child, and just wanted to let nature take its course. However, during this period, their family members kept urging them, and they themselves thought, why haven't they gotten pregnant after 2 years?
So they started various tests, but the results were all good. They took countless medicines prescribed by the doctor, but they still couldn't get pregnant.
Gradually, my colleague's mentality collapsed. He wanted a child so much that he had insomnia and anxiety. In the past two years, the couple not only frequently went to various hospitals for physical examinations, but also often went to see psychiatrists for psychological treatment.
All the money, energy, and spirit were spent, but they failed to get a child, but they waited until the epidemic was released. Not long after
was released, both my colleague and his wife got Yang. They both experienced high fever, razor throat, cough, nasal congestion, etc. Two people were in the rented house, and neither one of them could get up. At this moment, they received the bad news from their hometown that an 83-year-old man in the family was dead.
At that moment, colleagues and the couple seemed to have thought: so what if they can’t get pregnant? I have already suffered so much, why should I let my children suffer this in the world?
After experiencing the relaxation and COVID-19, my colleagues and my wife have become much more relaxed. We can see more smiles and speak more relaxedly. My colleagues said that they are really not anxious anymore!
2 After liberalization, how many people gave up on having a second child
I don’t know if you feel this deeply, at least around Guo’s mother, many mothers gave up on having a second child.
From a risk perspective, , although it may not have much impact on the fetus after becoming positive, you need to be extra cautious about monthly prenatal checkups, medication during pregnancy, etc. In addition, pregnant women's resistance is relatively low, so if they encounter repeated infections, they will have no choice but to survive.
It's okay to get through it, but what if it turns into pneumonia , or there are other associated symptoms?
Some things are not something you can just endure. As a parent, you cannot put your mother in danger just to have a second child. After all, there is a baby in the family, and you must at least be responsible for the baby.
From a physical point of view, after being released, the probability of Yang Yang is really too high. Although there is an immunity period of 3-6 months, it is not impossible to recover from Yang. Everything is unknown.
In this case, the parents still need to work, take care of the older baby, and take care of the elderly at home. If a second child is born at this time, there will definitely be insufficient energy.
Therefore, in order to ensure the temporary quality of life of the family, we do not dare to have a second child easily.
From a child's perspective, , this virus is bound to coexist with humans. Whether it will disappear or weaken is unknown. Parents who already have one child at home do not really want another child to suffer such a sin.
From an age perspective, many mothers are now expecting a second child, because they are just the right age, and the age difference between their eldest and second child is just right. If you miss this time or wait any longer, you will become an advanced or super-elderly woman, and you will naturally not want to take this risk again.
Therefore, due to multiple considerations, many people have actually given up on having a second child.
3 What preparations should be made if you want to get pregnant during the epidemic?
Of course, under the current environment, it is just not suitable for pregnancy, but it does not necessarily mean that you cannot get pregnant.Especially for some couples who do not have children yet and are preparing for pregnancy, they have the conditions to have children, and they still hope to have a child no matter what the future holds.
What preparations should be made in this situation?
Preparation 1: Maintain and regulate your body
Recently, the infection has reached its peak in many cities, and there is also a shortage of drugs. Therefore, it is better to seize the time to get pregnant than to take care of your body.
I believe that many people have already passed the pregnancy. After the pregnancy, many people's bodies cannot return to a healthy state immediately. It is just a good time for couples preparing for pregnancy to regulate their bodies and develop good living habits, eating habits, and sleeping habits.
Preparation 2: Pre-pregnancy check-up is essential
Due to the epidemic, if you are unable to go to the hospital for a pre-pregnancy check-up now, it is still recommended to put aside preparations for pregnancy.
Because pre-pregnancy examination is so important for pregnancy, only when both parties are healthy, the chance of successful pregnancy preparation will be higher, and most importantly, the possibility of high-quality embryos will be higher.
If the pregnancy must be terminated due to unqualified conditions in some items, it will not only be a loss of time but also physical damage to the couple preparing for pregnancy.
So, don’t lose the big for the small.
Preparation 3: Keep a good attitude
I believe that the mentality of many people recently is actually not good, especially after seeing various severe cases, high fever, pneumonia, etc. on the Internet.
The information pushed to you on the Internet is filtered by big data. The more you pay attention to something, the more it will push it. You always like to read information about severe epidemic symptoms, then you will find that all you get is this information.
It is necessary to pay attention to the form of the epidemic, understand the various symptoms that the virus may cause, things to pay attention to, etc. However, don’t think that just because you have encountered these, you will most likely do the same.
You need to know whether a lot of information on the Internet is true or not, let alone the probability. These problems are very big, and the probability is also quite low.
Please read less negative and anxiety-provoking speech information!
Especially for couples preparing for pregnancy, it is very important to relax and not be anxious!
In contrast, Guo’s mother’s friend who has been unable to get pregnant has actually put down her anxiety under the new crown. This is worth learning. After all, everything with has another side, so we can be prepared! Don't let yourself have trouble sleeping and eating because of these things that haven't happened.
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Having a second child, whether to be pregnant or not, is a decision made by a family after weighing it. We don’t need to be too anxious, but we don’t want to go into battle unprepared. Protecting yourself and your family is more important than pregnancy at the moment!
