When facing life, feelings, and career, do you often feel powerless? The difficulties and hardships in life often suppress us. If we cannot perform good self-healing and mediation and cannot be relieved for a long time, over time, we will enter the stage of depression and depression.
"Kamakura Uzumaki Consulting Institute" The author of this book, Michiko Aoyama, won the TOP2 of the "Bookstore Awards" in Japan in 2021 and 2022, and is a Japanese healing treasure writer.
tells 6 short stories, using flashback techniques, from 2019 to 1989. It seems to be one, but it has some connection. We may encounter each story in daily life, anxious, entangled, and twisted, but after reading it, some unknown light will appear in our hearts.
6 stories involve three major themes of life: life, feelings and career.
01 Return the child's life to himself
2013, the protagonist is facing his son who is about to graduate from high school. My son was originally a top student. According to the secular direction, he should take the college entrance examination and then move forward all the way.
Who knew that such a good child suddenly fell in love with self-media, fell in love with filming videos and doing live broadcasts, and gave up applying for a prestigious university.
At this time, as a housewife's mother, she felt extremely anxious.
Both parents love their children, but the boundaries of love are not easy to grasp. Once you pass the boundary, the child feels only control. The mother Ayako and her son Mago in the "Hair Vortex" are trapped in this kind of love deadlock.
When what children want to do is inconsistent with their parents’ expectations, especially when facing major life choices, where should we as parents go?
How did Kamakura Whirlpool Consulting Institute help this mother see her choice clearly?
Every customer who comes out of the consultation will get and can only get a "vortex sugar when you are confused".
Ayako's vortex candy made her regain her heart that she had unconditionally loved her children.
02 Life is long, the most important thing is still yourself
2007. The girl who is afraid of being proposed will finally find herself through the words of Heizu Loyed.
He really wants to get married, but I am afraid of getting married. I think it is that important to live together like this. Do you want that engagement?
Jessica's emotions were thus swept into the terrible vortex, but how can all this continue to advance?
is afraid of change and is afraid of loss.
Later, she found the answer in her heart at Kamakura Whirlpool Consulting Institute: I think it is also interesting to choose to be a family.
There are many possibilities in life. Marriage is neither the end nor the beginning.
It is a step in many processes that we need to go through in our lives.
Even if you get married and start your life, your life is still your own. You do not belong to him, and he does not belong to you.
People always have to look forward and embrace those unknown changes, but don’t forget to lose yourself.
03 At work, we must be responsible for our choices
2019, the protagonist of "Mosquito Reel Vortex" Hayaka has been staring at an unrealized longing at work, and has wasted 6 years of time.
Just at the beginning of his work, his dream was to become an editor of the business magazine DAP. But by chance, he was assigned to the life magazine "Mimosa", which is aimed at housewives.
He looked down on this magazine that was extremely mediocre in his eyes. He always felt that he was not satisfied with his talent. He repeatedly proposed to transfer to DAP, but he never got what he wanted.
So, he had to spend six years in "Mimosa" and became more and more confused and could not find his own value.
At this time, the DAP's recession became the last straw that broke the camel's back, and he felt that his hope was completely shattered.
But is the truth really what he thought?
After accidentally entering Kamakura Eddy Consulting Institute, with the help of external forces, Haysaka Shin saw another real world.
It turns out that the magazine "Mimosa" that serves housewives is not low-end. Housewives have the indispensable power of our society being promoted by the times.
But because of his stubbornness and prejudice, he never really regarded them. A waste of 6 years of youth.
Fortunately, it was not too late. In the end, he realized his problem and prepared to do his best to let the new DAP sprout in his heart.
04 Write at the end
"Are you separated from your friends?"
This is the first question that everyone who mistakenly enters the consultation center hears. But this question is the beginning of everyone's healing themselves.
In real life, there is no such magic consultation room. But in many cases, the answer is actually in front of you and in your heart.
Only when a person stops complaining and no longer escaping can he see his true self.
sincerely recommends this "Kamakura Uzumaki Consulting Institute". The confusion at every stage of life can be found in the book. It is suitable for public reading, so that your heart will not be separated and your own belonging.
