The tall building is based on the foundation, the foundation is empty and it is in danger. When raising children, you must not "cut corners" in the early stages of your life.
Book copy and check-in day 83. Today I continue to read the relevant knowledge of "Psychological Development" by Teacher Li Meijin . The following is the excerpt from today.
Psychological development is irreversible. This characteristic determines that in the process of extension and progression of psychological development, if a certain link or step is missing, defects will occur and will be difficult to make up for for life.
Teacher Li Meijin divides human psychological development into four important steps. This is the process in which person gradually becomes a "social person" through raising, raising and cultivating.
Emotional needs to be raised . This is the first step in psychological development, mainly done by breastfeeders at home. Emotional support is issued when the child is unable to act independently. Every time the child shouts, the supporter can respond in time and take care of it in place.
When emotions are raised in place, the child will remember the smell, voice and appearance of raising people. It lasts for four months to six months, and the child will have the first emotion in his life - attachment.
Character needs to be educated . This is the second step in psychological development, mainly completed by the person the child is attached to in family life. Aged 0 to 3 years old is mainly emotional support. Raisers should use all their love to patiently care for and help their children.
Once a child forms good behavioral norms and becomes a well-educated person, it will be easier for the child to integrate into the group and society in the future.
ability needs to be cultivated . This is the third step of psychological development, which is mainly completed by teachers from schools at different levels through educational activities.
A person’s hard work is a very difficult process. With a good character education as the foundation, it will be much smoother, otherwise it will be easy to give up halfway.
Self-requirement . This is the fourth step of psychological development, which is completed by individuals who independently enter social life themselves. Based on the first three steps, a person's self-cultivation will determine the height of life. How can
keep improving? As the ancient sages said, "When three people walk, I will be my teacher." Mature people can take good people in social life as their role models, or use good books as spiritual mentors through reading, live and learn until they are old, and constantly improve their cultivation.
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