Just now, a friend told me his little view on psychology. He criticized Chinese psychology in various ways, such as Chinese psychology not being good, psychological counselors not being good; Chinese psychological counselors are too high, etc.
Because his views are very superficial and he does not understand the basic meaning of psychology at all. Therefore, I don’t have to discuss psychology with him, and I can’t talk to Xia Chong.
Because he and I have a simple communication. It made me deeply feel that there are two types of people who can point out that there are problems in psychology: one is a top expert, and I am not yet. So, I can't point out where there are problems and problems in psychology. Another is a psychology novices.
Psychology Novice mistakenly thought that she had understood the whole psychology because she saw a little bit of psychological knowledge. Just use your little knowledge to measure other psychological knowledge and psychological counselors. As long as they are different from the knowledge they have learned, they will think that it is unscientific and wrong.
In psychology, there is no saying that there is a good technique or skill in psychological counseling, and which one is poor. The one that suits you is the best. You say that the family system is well arranged, and some people think that family system is superstitious and psychoanalysis is good. Psychology novices will be obsessed with the techniques, techniques and methods of psychological counseling. But I don’t know that if a person is full of energy and energy, he can rush the lesions, increase his wisdom, quick thinking, and full of concentration. Why do you need to learn about those psychological counseling techniques and techniques?
In the eyes of psychology, I just know that some psychological counseling skills are good, some psychological counselors have high levels, and some expert charges low fees, but I don’t know that all the techniques, methods, and techniques are used, and the role is based on people, and talents are the foundation of everything, not technology.
In other words, you are not smart enough, have insufficient energy and spirit, have many obsessions and many distracting thoughts. The cognition is not scientific enough and the realm is not high enough. You won't be able to understand the techniques, techniques and methods of psychological counseling well. You can't make good use of these techniques, techniques and methods, either. Therefore, it is not that psychology is not powerful enough, nor that psychological counseling techniques, techniques and methods are not powerful enough. But you are not powerful enough.
It is clear: the wise observe the same, the foolish observe the differences; distinguish between all dharmas and do not have the mind of discrimination. In other words, the lower the level, the more we can tell who is at a higher level and at a lower level; which consulting technology is good and which one is bad. It can even be distinguished that a person can speak, do things, express his expression, sit and walk here and there is something wrong. It seems that this person is very wise, but in fact, it is because of the person's inner obsession and discrimination. The wise understand, respect and tolerate everything, and treat the masses without any obstacles.
