Recently, Jackie Chan daughter Wu Zhuolin , queuing up on the street to receive free food, which has caused heated discussion. This is an institution in Canada that provides free food relief for low-income poor families.
Wu Zhuolin was dressed in a sloppy dress, carrying a blue empty bag, and was tired of waiting for the arrival of food.
As the daughter of a superstar, why is it so embarrassing? What kind of story does this girl who has never seen her biological father and has a very stale relationship with her mother for a time. She has committed suicide and ran away from home?
1 Wu Zhuolin's arrival
Jackie Chan and his wife Lin Fengjiao have been supporting each other, but Jackie Chan made "a mistake that men in the world will make."
1999, Jackie Chan and Wu Qili met at a party, and they met each other and amaze each other. The paparazzi captured Jackie Chan sending Wu Qili home late at night, and they left a intimate photo in public.
On Jackie Chan's birthday, Wu Qili volunteered to arrange for Jackie Chan despite Jackie Chan's already family. Soon, Wu Qili revealed the expected delivery date for Jackie Chan to give birth to a "dragon seed". After some calculations, the sowing period happened to be Jackie Chan's birthday.
After Wu Qili became pregnant, Jackie Chan didn't care much at first, but Wu Qili insisted on giving birth to a child and threatened Jackie Chan with this.
Wu Qili is a scheming woman. When naming her daughter, she used "Lin" in Jackie Chan's wife's name "Lin Fengjiao", in an attempt to usurp the position of Jackie Chan's wife, which made Jackie Chan even more want to protect his wife.
After Wu Qili decided to give birth to a child, she moved to Shanghai to raise her daughter alone and never had any contact with Jackie Chan again.
Faced with this embarrassing thing that had been planned, Jackie Chan said that he was framed. Although he admitted that he had cheated, he just refused to raise this illegitimate daughter. The whole world knows who the child's father is, but he refuses to recognize this daughter.
Jackie Chan once said in his autobiography that the last thing he wanted to see was that his son and daughter competed for property and went to court. He had donated half of his property to the foundation during his lifetime, and said that he would donate all his property naked after S.
will leave some life needs for the son and wife, as long as there is no worries, it is enough, but the daughter is not mentioned at all, which shows that Jackie Chan is extremely disgusted with the mother and daughter.
Wu Zhuolin's growth trajectory has no father. When she grows up, she gradually becomes sensitive and introverted and doesn't like to talk.
A psychological report from the University of Michigan in the United States pointed out that 69% of girls’ self-confidence comes from getting along with their fathers when they were young. Father is the image of the opposite sex that every girl first comes into contact with. Father is the source of their sense of security and a symbol of the unknown world.
When writer Lin Yong talked about raising his daughter, he said: Because he didn't know what the man his daughter would treat her in the future, he adopted a wealthy way of raising his daughter and cared for her since childhood.
Wu Zhuolin was born embarrassedly and was destined to be unable to receive the nourishment of love. Such children are easily driven by emotions in society, either escape or are overly persistent, and live a heavy and depressing life.
And his mother Wu Qili has been single since childhood, which makes Wu Qili more likely to be excited and rebellious. When Wu Qili educated Wu Zhuolin, although she incorporated a new concept of education, she still had the simplicity and rudeness of the previous generation of education.
She attaches great importance to her children's schooling. She was once the beauty pageant champion of " Miss Asia ". She spared no expense to let her daughter go to the best aristocratic school in Shanghai, with tuition fees of up to more than 100,000 yuan per year.
It's just that she is emotional and even uses violent means to discipline her daughter strictly. She once asked her daughter to raise her hands with heavy hands for two hours, and even used a belt to hit her on the thigh and butt.
Wu Zhuolin When he was 15 years old, Wu Qili beat her daughter to the hospital and was arrested for suspected child abuse.
Later, Wu Zhuolin always wanted to meet her father, even if she only met once, she was satisfied. The daughter said that if the mother agreed, she would definitely concentrate on studying, but Wu Qili always opposed it.
The mother and daughter often quarreled about this, and their daughter began to become rebellious and had no intention of going to school. Jackie Chan refused to admit her daughter, and her daughter failed to commit suicide by cutting her wrist.
17 years old, Wu Qili wanted to take her daughter with skin-sensitive drugs, but her daughter was unwilling to take them. The two clashed and were emotionally excited. She said in the house, "Either you die or I die."
Wu Zhuolin called the police again. Afterwards, both parties made changes. After communication, the relationship between mother and daughter was improved. The daughter realized that her mother gave her double love by being a father. "Birth of a father" is not important, but raising a mother is important.
Wu Qili slowly made changes, and did not want to throw away burdens on her children, and did not instill resentment with her daughter. Her daughter once asked why she didn’t have a father? Wu Qili explained: "There are things you have, others don't have them either, so don't compare them with others."
2 Swordsman's feelings
When he was a child, Wu Zhuolin was a lively and active girl. When I grew up, I became introverted, didn’t like to communicate with others, nor did I like to make friends, and immersed in my own world.
Later, Scorpio Wu Zhuolin had a relationship of going astray. From a little girl to a tomboy, she fell in love with her Canadian internet celebrity girlfriend who is 12 years older than her, and had a transnational same-sex marriage that attracted attention.
Wu Zhuolin poured all his love into his girlfriend. The two of them lived a difficult life. They once couldn't afford to pay the rent and ate bread on the streets.
My girlfriend is delicate and doesn’t like work. She goes to the hospital from time to time. Wu Zhuolin was forced to work hard to make money and dropped out of school to work to support each other.
Sometimes people often photograph Wu Zhuolin receiving free food, picking up rags, and working in restaurants abroad. These have become the norm of her life, so the scene we saw at the beginning.
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3 Summary
Writer Ma Boyong said:
A good family environment is like a good antique. As time goes by, a breath will quietly settle, gradually becoming a part of the character and even destiny of the family members.
Children who have been cared for by their parents since childhood are calm and rich in heart, and they have fewer bumps and bumps in their relationship with people around them, making it easy to get a happy life.
There is no choice for birth, so do your child well, "When you can't fight for your father, you can only fight for your life." Only self-improvement is the right way. Even if you are not as good as a down-to-earth effort, you can do it with your own down-to-earth efforts. I hope Wu Zhuolin can get out of the fog of the vicious circle as soon as possible and live a peaceful life.