Let me ask you a question first, please read the following sentence, "I go to the park in the morning, go to the supermarket when the weather is hot at noon, go to the cinema to lie on the massage chair in the afternoon when I feel sleepy, and dare not go home until after six o'clock. I am that person people".
Then my question came, who is "that person" in this sentence? Or what kind of people?
I believe that many friends with "experience" will immediately think of an answer, "People who pretend to go to work every day!"
So my real question is, why do some people pretend to go to work every day? Pretending to go to work? Why does the phenomenon of pretending to work happen so often?
Let’s talk about it today. Many people are very concerned about the hotly searched phenomenon of pretending to work!
There is no doubt that pretending to go to work is a very helpless and tiring choice, because those who pretend to go to work have to face all kinds of suffering:
First of all, they have lost their jobs, so they have to prepare for a new job Worry;
Secondly, although I lost my job, I couldn’t let my family and acquaintances know about it, so I had to leave early and come back late every day, giving people the illusion that I was still working normally. In addition, I couldn’t find a place to kill time. Spending money, fear of being caught by acquaintances, etc. are not only tiring physically, but also feeling emptier;
More importantly, pretending to go to work means there is no income. What if you have to pay off the mortgage, support your wife and children, right? Feeling more like dying? Do you feel like life is simply too hopeless?
In other words, pretending to go to work will definitely be exposed if you are unable to find another job quickly. The so-called "pretending to go to work" is just a lie to yourself, but why are there still so many people who resolutely Choose to deceive yourself?
In my opinion, the reason may be as follows:
The first possibility is to prevent family members from worrying. After all, there are always too many unsatisfactory things in life. In this case, let yourself bear the pressure of choice and give it to yourself. It is a good choice to give your family peace of mind;
the second possibility is "good face" and "self-esteem". After all, people have vanity. For some people, sudden unemployment is like a It’s like the sky is falling, and it’s really not easy to tell the outside world;
The third possibility is to maintain family harmony. After all, “unemployment” will not only bring negative emotions, but also may make people deeply understand what “misfortunes never come singly” means. ", so being able to hide your thoughts for a while can indeed make the family more harmonious, or have more harmonious moments.
But regardless of the reason, we must also point out that the so-called "pretending to go to work", just like hiding one's ears and stealing the bell, and burying one's head, will not help solve the difficulties faced by the unemployed - although I do not agree with the behavior of "pretending to go to work" , but everyone’s choices are different. If someone chooses to “pretend to go to work”, I really can’t criticize anything.
In fact, phenomena such as resignation, being fired, and unemployment are all too common nowadays. Although most of us can choose not to resign, we still cannot avoid unemployment.
In other words, the possibility of unemployment is indeed a "ticking time bomb" for many people, which has also led to the phenomenon of "pretending to go to work" from time to time, especially in the past two years, when we have to face the impact of the new coronavirus epidemic, and even more This has led to great downward pressure on the economy and a high risk of unemployment. This phenomenon of "pretending to go to work" may further increase, which is indeed quite worrying.
But we should also see that every difficulty is a test for us. Therefore, in the face of unemployment risks and unemployment anxiety, everyone might as well have a more positive attitude, which is obviously more helpful for us to get out of the predicament.
As for whether you will choose to "pretend to work" because of unemployment? I'm very curious here, what would you do?
Anyway, personally, I would definitely not choose to "pretend to go to work"...
