When a person is judged by others, just like a product is labeled, people will unconsciously make impression management so that their words and deeds are consistent with the content of the label. This is psychology The "label effect" on. American psychologist Becker once said: "When people are labeled with a certain type of label, people will become the type of person pointed to by this label."
This thing is very scary, and this problem has already The history is long, probably thousands of years since ancient times. When we mention someone, we will say: Oh! I know that person, he is good. It's just a bit... This is a label. If you want to erase this label, it is simply unrealistic. You can only change the label above your head through your own actions!
The role of tags is really too great. I don’t know how many good people have lost their lovers, lost the chance of promotion, and lost the possibility of turning into a dragon because of the role of tags! But in addition to our own efforts, labeling also has a very critical thing, and that is how others label you! Is it a normal mentality, or is it a label given to you by colored glasses? The influence here is really critical!
Of course, you can say: He can say whatever he likes, I just need to be myself! OK! There's nothing wrong with this, old man, but dear friends, if you are strong enough, you really don't need to care about these things, but not everyone is strong. There are many people who need opportunities, need to shape their reputation, and need to label themselves as benign!
Some people have good personalities, are very kind, respect the old and love the young, but just because they have a tattoo or a shaved head, they are considered a villain or a hooligan! If you buy popsicles for a child, the child will have to call the police, but I have indeed seen many such people kneeling in front of the bed of their critically ill parents to show their filial piety!
But I have also seen many people dress well, walk elegantly, look elegant and impeccable, and then do things that make you want to kick them in the butt!
Therefore, labels cannot just be judged by appearance. There are many people with deep pockets who hide themselves very well. In real life, we always encounter various things that are labeled. When we were young, our parents , teachers will label you as "good student" or "bad student", "good kid" or "bad kid". When we grow up and enter the society, we will be labeled by colleagues, friends and even strangers as other types of labels. Label. Faced with these forced labels, will you be affected by them? Are you proud and happy when you are labeled with many positive labels? Do you get frustrated and sad when you are labeled with many negative labels?
is not necessary! Brothers and sisters! Your label will change with your efforts, and it will also change as you change the environment around you. Its impact on you may be lifelong, but the label itself will change. What we have to do is to do our best. If possible, just develop in your own direction! Leave the rest to God!
