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big speechless incident!
Pregnancy incident Mom saw a post two days ago. After reading it, her head was buzzing: This is not something that people with two legs do!
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The thing is like this: A male netizen said that he was dink 15, and now he regrets it and wants to have a child.
At the beginning, he thought it was understandable to have a child. After all, when people reach middle age, their ideas will inevitably be different from those when they were young.
But as he said, the fist was really clenched unconsciously.
After Tadink's idea was shaken by the people around him, he tentatively asked his lover, and his lover was still very resistant to having children, mainly because of age.
43 years old, my body is indeed not allowed. Even if it is allowed, it is indeed very harmful to the body, and the baby's birth quality is not good.
But after a change of style, he felt that he was only 40 years old and it was enough time to find someone in his 20s to give birth to a baby for him!
"I have a strong idea of wanting a child now, but my lover doesn't want it and is not suitable for having a child!"
"I want to divorce more and more intensely!"
It's true. At first, I thought it was normal, but I saw that sentence: I can find a 20-year-old child...
I was so angry in an instant when pregnant.
For his sake, my wife did not hesitate to cut off relations with her family, from being empty-handed to having some wealth, but in return the other party tried every means to divorce.
Dink, you not only regret it in the middle, but also want to find someone else to have a baby.
really want to curse people. Will your conscience really hurt when treating your wife who share the joys and sorrows together like this?
As netizens said:
This is not something that two legs can do!
Have you enjoyed all the benefits brought by DINK, but want your first wife to bear all the disadvantages? ? ! What a scumbag!
Some netizens also pointed out: All men who want DINKs should ligate by themselves, and those who do not ligate are fake DINKs!
Although the words are direct, this is indeed the truth!
Because in DINK's family, men have the right to renege, but women do not. Once they reach older, it is becoming more and more difficult for women to get pregnant, and the risks of men can be ignored!
Once a man repents, the situation of a woman becomes very difficult!
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Ten years of DINK marriage, and once it broke down
He turned around and gave birth to someone else, and I have never had the chance to be a mother in this life!
Some netizens said: If you want to choose DINK, the man will ligate first and then get married. If you don’t want to cleave and have concerns, you will most likely regret it in the future.
Indeed, there are many people who regret it, and most of them are men.
female singer Cai Qin once said on the show: I have never had the chance to be a mother in my life.
At first, she was not a DINK clan, but because her ex-husband Yang Dechang wanted platonic love and did not want children.
For love and marriage, she gave up the most important thing about becoming a mother.
only in the end love was defeated by reality. Ten years of marriage, once it was broken, Yang Dechang turned around and gave birth to a child with others!
The famous director Er Dongsheng also firmly stated that he was a DINK family. Even though his wife did not agree at the beginning, the couple finally reached an agreement.
In the first ten years, everything in the world was fine for the two, and others thought they would stay DINK until old.
But what I didn't expect was that in 2016, Er Dongsheng was suddenly exposed to give birth to a daughter with his mysterious girlfriend who had been dating for two years. At that time, he did not divorce.
talked about DINK, but the man escaped halfway and cheated on giving birth. This operation is shocking and infuriating.
There is also the experience of a netizen, which is also very angry: Dink has been thirty years old, and now my husband is fifty years old and I only want a child, and he doesn’t have much money yet, so it’s impossible to compensate me for anything... I really regret it, I should say I regret it! Most men can repent for this matter, but it is difficult for women.
Because of the elderly, men's fertility is still there in their sixties or seventies.
But often women's golden childbearing age no longer exists, and the risk of fertility has also increased exponentially. Some women, even because of their old age, can never be mothers again!
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That's right
In Dink family , it's hard for women to regret it!
In medicine, there is the best age for reproduction.
WHO (WHO) divides the age of pregnant women into 3 stages:
●10-19 years old: teenage pregnancy
●20-34 years old: appropriate age pregnancy
●≥35 years old: advanced pregnancy (≥42 years old, absolute age; ≥50 years old, extremely old)
It is obvious that 20-34 years old is the best age for giving birth to a baby.
For more than ten years, once the other party repents, most women have missed the best childbirth age!
. It is not that easy for older women to get pregnant, whether it is natural conception or artificial conception.
Women's fertility begins to decline at the age of 30. By the age of 35, the decline will be faster. By the age of 45, the ability to conceive naturally will drop significantly. It is difficult to conceive naturally, and of course it is not absolute.
age will have an impact on eggs. When a woman’s life begins, there are fixed numbers of eggs in her ovaries. As women grow older, the number of eggs will decrease. By the age of 30, the egg mass will also decline.
And women over 35 years of age do not have the eggs as easily as those of young women.
At the same time, as women age, they are more likely to suffer from diseases that affect fertility, such as uterine fibroids and endometriosis . Age is just one of the things that older mothers have to face.
Some people may say: If you cannot conceive naturally when you are pregnant at an advanced age, you can also choose artificial test tubes.
But the success rate of IVF is also directly related to age:
●The success rate of expectant mothers aged 25-35 is 40%-46%, or even higher.
●The success rate for 40-42 years is 11%-19%.
●The success rate of expectant mothers over 42 years old is less than 10%.
High age to get pregnant, whether it is natural or artificial insemination, it is not easy!
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Pregnancy at an advanced age
fertility risk is also multiplied!
In DINK family, if one party regrets, the risk of fertility is borne by the woman.
Even if you are pregnant at an age, older mothers will face some risks during pregnancy.
①The risk of miscarriage is increased. As the egg quality decreases, the risk of miscarriage will also increase. Older mothers are more likely to have spontaneous miscarriage , eclampsia and other conditions.
②The probability of difficult birth increases. Along with the aging of the pelvic floor structure and bone joints, the flexibility of the tissue becomes worse, the elasticity of the cervix, uterus and perineum decreases, and insufficient muscle contraction force, etc., the chance of difficult labor will increase.
3Casal section. As we age, the rate of cesarean section will also increase, with age rising from 26% at 20 years old to 40% at 35 years old and 48% at 40 years old.
④The fetal malformation rate increases. As the mother grows older, the egg cells will age and the body will accumulate more harmful factors such as X-rays, drugs, infections, etc. The baby will have a higher probability of Down syndrome . According to statistics:
●The probability of a 25-year-old mother giving birth to a Down child is 1/1250.
●30-year-old mother is 3/1000, and 35-year-old mother is 1/300.
●45-year-old mother reaches 1/35.
Although Down syndrome cannot be prevented, the body will naturally eliminate 60% of the children and will have miscarriages in the early stages of pregnancy. The remaining probability can be accurately identified through a variety of screening and diagnostic examinations.
⑤The difficulty of postpartum recovery is increasing. As we grow older, the harder the joints in the birth canal, perineum, and pelvis, the worse the uterine contraction and vaginal extension, which will also increase the difficulty of postpartum recovery.
Ageing at an advanced age is not only the risk of fertility will increase, but the difficulty of postpartum recovery will also increase!
So if you want DINK, you must think clearly. You must have the courage to persevere, and be prepared to the other party that may regret it at any time!
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33Dink
Please be careful and make your choices carefully! It is common for
Dink to regret it.
If you want to choose DINK, you must weigh the pros and cons and consider them carefully before making a decision.
In the comments above, many netizens mentioned:
, ligate first, ligate at least have an attitude!
Recommended that those who want to DINK can first understand the difference between ligation between men and women. It has a relatively small impact on men, but it has a great harm to women!
Dink should be cautious. Choose Dink man to get married first. If he doesn’t want to get clenched, he will most likely go back on his word in the future!
female DINK is basically preparing for the consequences of themselves. Of course, the other party's ligation (irreversible) does not count, but let's put it this way, it is impossible for Chinese men to be now!
That's right. In China, many people can accept DINK, but not many people can accept ligation.
In the eyes of many men, ligation is still a disaster and ligation will lose male dignity. DINK can do it, but ligation will never work.
But male ligation is really not a disaster. Compared with female ligation, male ligation damage is smaller. You can understand by looking at the comparison below:
Although the idea of ligation first is a bit extreme, it also shows that is an averaging protocol for men and women.
For men, they still have to choose to get married and have children again.
But for women, the childbearing age is there, and they often have no choice if they are regretful. They either have to bear the other party cheating on giving birth, have to have children at an advanced age and have experienced hardships, have not lost their marriage, and have also lost the opportunity to be a mother.
so if you want DINK, please make your choice carefully!
Although it is a personal decision or not, it is not a personal decision and others have no right to interfere.
But human nature cannot stand the test, and there is no medicine for regret in the world.
Don't give up giving up fertility actively and easily because of blind love. DINK must have made a decision after considering it carefully!
If you make a choice, you must be able to enjoy the freedom of the present and take on possible risks in the future!
Reference article
"I am 40 years old this year, DINK for 15 years, my husband regrets it, he wants to find a young girl in his 20s...Selected Jokes"
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