Recently read a book "Mr. Toad Goes to See a Doctor". When I didn't open the book, I felt it would be a boring psychological book. After reading it, I suddenly realized it.
In this rapidly developing society, we have more or less problems, and we may be the mole , toad or river rat written by the author. After bringing in the role, I will find that I have problems here and need to re-recognize and face myself.
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"The mole feels almost impossible to be himself, because he always lives in the shadow of the river rat: if they go boating, the river rat will always say that the mole is rowing wrong, such as the wrong posture of holding the paddle; when the boat is parked, the river rat will check the cable again to make sure that the mole is tied with the rope, and still insist on turning the rope around the pillar without any movement.
The problem is that the river rat is really capable than the mole. When it comes to rowing, the river rat rows better; when it comes to knots, the river rat will tie more tricks (he even tied knots in all directions), and he is indeed taking care of the mole. But even with the friendship and kindness of the river rat, the mole is still not satisfied. He would rather the river rat than always be able to be so capable and allow him to try in his own way, even if it is done wrong, it doesn't matter."
In fact, everyone will experience the mole. If you think what others say is like a gust of wind blows through your ears, and if some think what you say makes sense, you will reflect on your own changes.
Speaking of which, I have indeed fallen into a certain trap recently, caring too much about the comparison/suggestions/certain remarks between people, which leads to myself in autism.
finds that the friends around you are better than each other, but feel that they have nothing to do and accomplish nothing, and will gradually hate and be jealous of others. When others help and guide them, they feel that they are showing off and ridiculing them, and they will become more and more annoying. But after a long time, they find that they have not worked hard enough, which has become so inferior and sensitive. They should learn more from good people to improve themselves, rather than just being jealous. In fact, it is not a very happy thing to think from another perspective that there is such an excellent friend to have a hot scene, right?
I was going to get wet in the rain, but you insisted on putting an umbrella for me, but you were wet and I couldn't walk fast. ——"Sai Ye"
Perhaps, if there are such people around us, you might as well ask yourself what's wrong with yourself? What do you really need?
