night, office.
While the woman is not paying attention, the man knocked her to the ground with a club. When the woman wakes up, the man has tied her up.
Immediately afterwards, the man began to humiliate the woman and took a video.
The woman finally broke free from the ropes. The angry man immediately grabbed her hair and pressed it on the table, hoping to invade her immediately...
When she collapsed and desperately saw the pen on the table and stabbed the man's eyes with the tip of the pen.
She finally escaped, but was in a car accident in panic.
When she woke up, everything changed:
She is no longer the white-collar worker of the past, there is no man who violated her, the dead father and brother are resurrected, and the person who looks the same as her boyfriend has also become a policeman he doesn't know...
What's going on?
Last weekend, a new drama starring Xu Weining and Jia Jingwen was launched. I was filled with emotion and felt very heavy.
So without saying much nonsense, let’s talk about it today--
"She and Her Her"
The woman mentioned at the beginning is named Lin Chenxi, who is a well-known headhunter consultant in the city.
She has outstanding abilities, but to outsiders, she has a bit introverted personality, only work but no friends.
On weekdays, Lin Chenxi basically doesn’t interact with colleagues, never participate in social engagements, and wins performance entirely by strength.
In life, Lin Chenxi has a gentle and considerate boyfriend who cleans the house and can cook a table of food for her to eat together.
Surprisingly, she always couldn't help but want to break up, which made her boyfriend feel very insecure.
Recently, a senior cousin Du Junru, airborne the company, becoming Lin Chenxi's nightmare.
Du Junru first lied that his cousin wanted to talk to her about the details of becoming a promotion to a partner, tricked her into a banquet she never attended, and took the opportunity to deliberately make physical contact.
Then, the two were arranged to poach an important senior executive, but Du Junru failed and Lin Chenxi succeeded.
So the next day, Lin Chenxi just arrived at the company, Du Junru suddenly rushed up and pulled her over and kissed her...
Lin Chenxi was about to scold him after breaking free, but he turned around and called him:
colleagues are all here, it is really bad for you to hug me like this in the company. Please respect me a little more, please don’t do this next time!
It’s you who are harassing others, how can you pretend to be a victim with confidence? ? ! !
This is not the end.
When Du Junru came to the tea room, he touched Lin Chenxi. After Lin Chenxi resisted, he started performing again:
How many times do you want me to say? I love my wife very much. Can you please don’t harass me! !
Seeing this, I was so angry that my blood pressure soared. How can a person be so shameless?
All these things made Lin Chenxi, who could no longer bear it, decide to leave the company and intend to accept offers from other companies.
Unexpectedly, Du Junru interfered and called her to come to the company. Then the scene at the beginning happened. Lin Chenxi was in a car accident and she came to a "beautiful new world" overnight.
So, has Lin Chenxi traveled to a parallel world?
doesn't seem to be.
Family members told her that she had a car accident before, causing a concussion and forgot a lot of things.
Doctor said that work, boyfriend, Du Junru and other things do not exist at all. It was a fictional plot created in her brain. caused her mental dissociation due to a car accident.
That is to say, the present is real.
Although Lin Chenxi is full of doubts and is always troubled by her own fictional plot, she can only accept this setting and start a new life, and receive long-lost family care.
In this process, Lin Chenxi met Xiao Liu, a policeman who looks exactly like his fictional boyfriend.
Lin Chenxi's chemistry teacher Lao Xie was killed earlier, and Xiao Liu is investigating the matter. Along with his investigation, Lin Chenxi's lost memory began to recover, and some terrible truths surfaced.
In high school, Lin Chenxi and his senior sister Yan Shenghua were both sexually assaulted by Lao Xie. For so many years, the two have lived in trauma that is difficult to heal.
Before the car accident, Lin Chenxi found Yan Shenghua and said she wanted to kill Lao Xie.
As a result, after Yan Shenghua gave Lao Xie sleeping pills, Lin Chenxi's father and brother rushed back and forth, and finally his brother strangled Lao Xie to death.
For a long time, Xie's wife thought that Lao Xie's death must be related to Lin Chenxi, so after she woke up in a car accident, she began to approach it intentionally.
And as the plot develops, my younger brother decided to get rid of Xie’s wife.
The tragic thing is that he failed to succeed, and he also made Xie’s wife deceive Lin Chenxi.
Xie’s wife wants to avenge her husband and get rid of Lin Chenxi.
At the critical moment, Xiao Liu arrived in time. With the help of Xiao Liu, Lin Chenxi was able to escape, but as she ran, she suddenly remembered a question:
Didn’t my brother and father die many years ago?
Immediately afterwards, with a series of memories, Lin Chenxi's surroundings began to change. When she recovered, she was already in the police station. What's going on with
?
It turns out that the deaths of my brother and father are real, and the policeman Xiao Liu does not exist. The original plot of is the reality, and the "beautiful new world" is the fiction under the dissociation of her spirit.
We can understand this way that Lin Chenxi entered dissociated world and then returned to reality.
Dissociation of the world is fake, but some things are true.
For example, Lin Chenxi and Yan Shenghua were sexually assaulted by Lao Xie, and psychological trauma has always existed.
The reason why Lin Chenxi had this dissociation was the source of sexual assault by Lao Xie in high school, and the trigger was the violent crime committed against her by Du Junru.
It can be said that in the whole "She and Her Her", the most heart-wrenching thing is the real feeling surrounding sexual assault and the spiritual destruction brought to women by sexual assault.
Trauma repeatedly tortures Lin Chenxi and Yan Shenghua, causing them to fall into depression.
They feel disgusting, and they wash their bodies desperately when they are dirty, asking why they are themselves rather than others, wanting to die and commit suicide.
Yan Shenghua did not dare to tell others, and he had been enduring it himself. After Lin Chenxi spent the exam in pain, he finally told his parents.
But her father actually said this at that time: Is
true? Is it because Lao Xie is usually too strict and you lie? Then have you resisted? Didn't you push him away?
Not to mention whether a female student can fight against an adult male physically, psychologically speaking, she is still a child, and she is frightened when encountering this. How do you tell her to resist?
Later, the family asked Lao Xie for an explanation.
Lao Xie refused to admit it, defending himself that he cared too much about the student's wrong method, and his wife even brought out a set of rhetoric that could crush people to death:
The matter is getting big, what are the benefits for you? How will Lin Chenxi be a human being in the future?
Lao Xie is a model teacher. When the matter spreads, who do you think everyone will believe? I think everyone has heard of these words:
, and to this day, people still say that.
I just want to ask, girls are obviously victims, why has this become a stain on their lives? What did they do wrong?
There is also Lao Xie's wife. She actually witnessed Lao Xie's invasion of Lin Chenxi with her own eyes. However, as a woman, just because the other party is her husband, she can ignore the right and wrong and ignore the suffering of Lin Chenxi, who is also a woman. We have seen a lot of situations like
in life and in the news.
Under pressure, Lin Chenxi's parents chose to calm down, but the impact of this matter did not end there.
On the contrary, it always tortures Lin Chenxi, which lasts for a long time, follows like a shadow, completely uncontrollable, dissociated countless times, almost hit by a car countless times, trance countless times, and nightmares countless times.
Before her current boyfriend, Lin Chenxi also dated a boyfriend. They used many methods and attempts, but Lin Chenxi still failed to get out of the shadow of sexual assault, and this matter has been adding negative emotions to their relationship.
She pretended to be fine again and again, trying to convince herself that the world still has sunshine, but she was trapped inside and couldn't get out of it.
The reason why she always wants to break up with her current boyfriend is also here.
Such a life is really overwhelming.
In addition to sexual assault, the series also presents the dilemma of women at multiple levels in daily life, and each part can empathize with it.
Regarding being single, when Lin Chenxi decided to accept an offer from another company, the other party said this:
Do you have any plans to get married recently? I hope you can take up a job as a married person. After all, a single and beautiful woman like you can easily cause some trouble in the company.
Regarding childbirth, Chen Zhiling, the sister of Lin Chenxi in the world, someone in her company is about to reach her birth date.
The female leader said that you suddenly became pregnant and was really irresponsible. After giving birth, you came back to work quickly. Some people are still working at home and standing by!
However, as Chen Zhiling said, we should be more considerate and tolerant of pregnant women, and the relevant policies of society and enterprises should also be tilted towards this.
Even from the perspective of utilitarianism, having children is a contribution to society.
turns a blind eye to the value of fertility, and does not recognize or make up for the losses and harms caused by fertility. How can it increase the birth rate!
About "Gender Advantage".
is also in Chen Zhiling's company. Some female employees will dress up very sexy and charmingly and go to drink and talk about business.
Chen Zhiling criticized the company's leaders when she saw this, saying that they regarded women as tools for making money. A female employee who also participated in the drinking said:
are all voluntary, and no one forced them.
In reality, it is not uncommon to force female employees to drink. Even if it is voluntary, we should think about what is behind this voluntary.
If you don’t “voluntarily”, you may lose your job and won’t earn more salary…
Before we discuss whether to be voluntary or not, we should think clearly, why is this happening? What makes it easier to negotiate business by providing additional services?
Under the huge and complex oppression and materialization system, how much of the so-called voluntary is not the result of alienation.
Similarly, Lin Chenxi's other sister, Yang Jiaying, is a person who is good at using "feminine traits". She knows how to perform and how to dress up, and can be more sexy and attractive to men.
However, after attracting a certain man, she was secretly photographed private videos by the man and shared them with friends...
When Yang Jiaying went to find that man, the man did not think he was wrong at all, and he also discussed shamelessly, otherwise I would ask my friend to pass on his girlfriend's video to you.
Not long after, Yang Jiaying's video was spread throughout the Internet, and her parents wanted to cut off their ties with her.
Isn’t such a foul behavior happening every day in some places on the Internet?
Finally, about domestic violence .
This is the experience that Yan Shenghua had experienced when he grew up in the real world, Her husband is Du Junru who wants to invade Lin Chenxi.
The experience of being sexually assaulted in high school made her self-doubt, self-loathing, and a serious flattering personality.
Facing Du Junru's PUA, verbal violence and physical violence, she never dared to resist, always obeyed and tolerated, and even brainwashed herself to rationalize Du Junru's behavior.
Fortunately, at the end of the episode, she finally mustered up the courage to divorce Du Junru, and together with Lin Chenxi, Du Junru received legal sanctions, and both of them gradually got out of the shadow.
It is true that this drama has a little problem with the rhythm and ends with a little chicken soup, but it is already very difficult to express the situation of women so deeply and sincerely.
Women are not a gender, but a situation.
Let everyone live in a more equal and safer social environment, which is something that everyone should work for.
I won’t say much else. I sincerely recommend that everyone watch this drama. Regardless of men and women, please like and follow if you agree.
That’s all today!
I bowed!
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