A few days ago I saw a topic of invisible personality.
The author quoted a news case in Hunan in mid-October: A 3-year-old boy took a bottle of yogurt from his neighbor's house. After his grandmother found out, she insisted on sending the child to the police station.
Witnesses said that some people think this grandma is savage and rough. This witness thinks this is the education with the most positive values. You should not be accustomed to the bottom line of your child, and you must remember it deeply.
The author believes that this grandmother is using the hands of state violent agencies to enjoy her own sadistic pleasure. At the same time, this is the reverse formation of grandma's desire for her crime - she is probably a hidden antisocial personality, and she has always been eager to commit crime in her subconscious mind.
The author even predicted that if the child is always raised by his grandmother, the probability of the child being brought to prison is very high.
This incident shocked me.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- In order to raise his children, he sold his house in the city and took the children to pick up garbage in the mountains and live in the land. At the same time, he used the money from selling the house to send Zhang Yide to the most expensive private school in the local area.
During the child's growth process, this father wrote a book to record his child's growth "Poetic Life, Poetic Father and Son"; there is also a book "Yide's Father and Son", which has 2,001 words in the book, including 11 small animals and 7 parts. These numbers have meaning: Zhang Yide's birthday: November 7, 2001.
He took 200,000 growth photos for his child, and used 5 cameras, and he saved them all.
The first half of the story is still exciting. Zhang Yide was admitted to Peking University . However, not long after he went abroad to study, he chose to commit suicide due to depression and attack.
Afterwards, many voices criticizing Zhang Yide's father appeared on the Internet, saying that his love always sounded like to control the child, and this kind of fatherly love is suffocating; it is also said that his record of the growth of children over the years is actually his own performance personality at work. This also seems to include the statement about invisible personality.
There is a saying that goes, "The success is the king and the defeat is the enemy." discusses some things from an after-the-scene perspective. If this person succeeds, the outside world will basically be praised; and if this person fails, everyone will have their own self-righteous conclusions and analysis.
However, whether people can perceive their deepest hidden personalities during a thing is actually a topic worth discussing.
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The community I am currently in has been unblocked and can enter and exit normally. So I cannot confirm that some of the matters that others are concerned about.
also saw some videos of people and things, which made me recall my feelings many years ago.
There was a golden week many years ago, when I went shopping with my family in the most central part of the city. At that time, it was really crowded and crowded. At a certain street intersection, I suddenly felt very impatient and even wanted to smash things to vent my urge. Even if there was any weapon, I might have done something beyond normal.
I remember the inner feelings of a mentally ill patient.
If I follow the so-called invisible personality, I may have some reckless factors in my heart, and in some extreme cases, I will be very emotional and impulsive.
In fact, looking back on some important things in my life, it is indeed the case. This is probably a very big weakness that needs to be vigilant in life.Can
be imagined? In the eyes of ordinary people, I am actually a very rational, gentle, patient and basic positive person.
These days, I have been blocked at home. Sometimes I think about it. If you don’t have to work, have enough savings, or are financially free, it is actually a wonderful thing to really lie down.
From this point of view, I must have a "lazy and bad" factor inside me.
Over the years, I have slowly abandoned the past linear thinking and moral evaluation. After seeing reports and narratives of certain events or emergencies, I sometimes think from the perspective of others. What would I do if I were that person at that time? The conclusions usually come to not necessarily be so bright and open, nor do they necessarily do better than the parties involved.
So actually knowing yourself is also a complicated process. Do you know some of your own invisible personality?
