""No matter how hard you are, no matter how hard you are, no matter how poor you are, you cannot be poor to educate" has always been the truth that people know. However, with the continuous development of society, the cost of raising and raising a child has gradually increased. For many ordinary families, the daily education and living expenses of children have become a considerable economic pressure.
Parents naturally want to do their best to give their children the best things. Many parents even spend a lot of money in order to get better educational resources for their children to obtain better educational resources. The amount of money is used to sign up for children with many extracurricular cram schools. does this to prevent children from losing at the starting line. Even if you silently bear the huge pressure from the economy, there is no complaint at all. And when you meet your child's birthday, you will also prepare carefully to give your child a beautiful childhood memory.
Of course, because of the high cost, many families choose to have only one child to raise them. After all, today's society is " heavy man" The concept of "light girl " has gradually faded, and people no longer pursue having a son, so few families choose to have a second or third child. But if you have two children, it is also a personal wish and choice, and there is no need to make more judgments for others. However, unexpectedly, when a mother shared her daily life on a social platform, she caused complaints from netizens because of a few pieces of cake scraps.
The second child mother gave her children "cake scraps", but was criticized by netizens: Don't have a baby if you can't afford it,
This second-child mother shares her daily life on social platforms as usual. Because the nearby cake shop sells "cake side" with scraps, it is also a real cake and the taste is delicious. Not only that, the price is also quite cheap, and you can buy a large bag of cakes for 5 yuan. As a budget-oriented housewife, this mother certainly would not miss such a good opportunity, so she bought a large bag of cakes for the children to eat. l2
Unexpectedly, this little thing like l2
has attracted netizens' complaints: thinks it will be sad to eat scraps all the time, unless the child is strong inside, it is easy to have a low self-esteem. Some netizens even said bluntly: If the conditions for do not allow it, don't want to have a second child, and it will make the children suffer. In the eyes of netizens, these cakes seem to have expected that the future life of these two children will not be very happy.
These remarks also made the mother feel self-doubted. Is it really embarrassing to eat cakes? is it really sorry for the children? These are just because the prices are affordable, so I think that the cakes I bought really make the children feel inferior? For a moment, the mother was also in a conflict. In my opinion, as long as it is economical and affordable, it is not embarrassing to buy it and use it. On the contrary, it is a manifestation of living.
It is not embarrassing to give your children "cake scraps". Raising rich does not depend on material things. Parents' love is the most precious
In fact, it is like buying "cake edges" like buying discounted promotional products. It is the same psychological activity. It is all because of economical benefits. A small piece of cake is not something that parents cannot satisfy their children. As parents, it is If you don’t eat, you will also give your children the best things, whether it’s cake or other things. is not embarrassing to choose to buy affordable things for life. As long as the children eat happily, the best result is.
In recent years, there have been more and more opinions on raising children with wealth, but in fact, raising children with wealth does not only refer to material satisfaction. In fact, the biggest difference between raising children with poverty and raising children with wealth should be one’s own spiritual satisfaction. For children, material conditions are naturally important, but more importantly, they come from the love of parents. Having all and complete love of parents for children is the richest person in the world!
Having a second child does not mean a mistake. According to your own conditions, reasonable choice is the most important
The reason why netizens say this is actually because for ordinary families, raising two children does require a lot of courage. , and it is inevitable that the eldest and the second child will be favored by the other, and there is unfair phenomenon. However, this does not mean that ordinary people will be stripped of the right to have a second child. We can have a stance against having a second child, but we cannot plan other people's lives.
In fact, for ordinary families, raising two children is indeed not easy, both spiritually and materially, and the efforts are huge. Therefore, the best way to have a second child should be to plan and choose reasonably according to your own conditions. I hope every parent can consider it carefully and use all their love to protect their children's growth!
[Author’s message] It is not a shame to buy “cake edge”. Ordinary people who are calculating should not be labeled as “poor”. Since they have chosen to raise two children, I believe that this mother will also use her own strength to bring the best life to the children!
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