The old saying often says: stepmother is hard to be, stepfather is hard to be .
is not a biological child, so whether it is free-range education or stern education, it is easy to attract criticism. It is even more difficult to get to the scale. Therefore, people are used to wearing tinted glasses to see these identities.
However, for stepfather Chi Chongrui , he has not encountered such trouble yet, and has also used age difference to deconstruct secular prejudice.
Chi Chongrui's stepdaughter Zhao Li
In fact, after falling in love with Chen Lihua , Chi Chongrui did not care about his stepfather's identity.
When he met his wife, he was becoming a classic "Tang Monk" in people's minds with " Journey to the West ". At that time, Chen Lihua had already had a failed marriage, and she was surrounded by her two divorced daughters and one son.
But the failed emotional experience cannot erase the halo of Chen Lihua at all. She quickly rose up with her outstanding business practices and became the most powerful female rich man, with a very strong position in the business world.
Not only is the difference in identity and status between the two, but is also a difference in age at 11 years old. The woman is 11 years older than Chi Chongrui . Is such a relationship as pure as they say? We don't know.
But they ignored the doubts of the outside world and followed their inner voices to fall in love and get married, forming a small family of two people.
With the new definition of their relationship, Chi Chongrui naturally became the child's stepfather: eldest daughter Zhao Li, second daughter Zhao Min, younger son Zhao Yong, and a adopted queen sickle.
After many years, in addition to the photo we saw a family in " Lu Yu has a date for ", Chi Chongrui's stepdaughter Zhao Li has appeared rarely, allowing us to know her recent situation.
Among the 3 children, the eldest daughter Zhao Li looks the most similar to her mother. In terms of , wearing jewelry earrings is very noble, and speaking slowly, it is like a copy of my mother Chen Lihua.
In this appearance, she appeared as the chairman of a cosmetics company to promote her company's brand. Looking back at her appearance, she is a typical strong woman, and she looks like she is doing well in her career.
The two are only 3 years apart and get along well
As far as the identity of stepfather and stepdaughter is concerned, it is actually difficult to develop fatherly love between the two.
You should know that Chi Chongrui is 11 years younger than his wife, but he is also 3 years older than his eldest daughter. How can such an age difference develop fatherly love and family affection? Similarly, Chi Chongrui is not much older than other children in the family, and is only 7 years apart from his youngest son.
But there is no fatherly love, but there is still family affection.
Until now, Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua have been married for 32 years, and they have spent 32 spring and autumn together. With such a long time, you will naturally have some true feelings with your children.
plus Chen Lihua assigned strict family rules for her family, requiring the whole family to have dinner together every night. Even meetings and chats at the dinner table every day are enough to cultivate family affection.
Because I love Chen Lihua, even though my age is not much different, Chi Chongrui also learns to care for every child with his father's mentality and treat them as his own. Feelings are mutual. One party is giving, and naturally the other party will also think of repaying him. Go back and forth, building a bridge of family affection.
Now, Chi Chongrui and his stepdaughter and stepson get along well, and the family lives in a harmonious life!
property distribution issues
Some time ago, the decision about Chen Lihua's inheritance distribution decision has been circulating on the Internet. It is reported that Chen Lihua will divide her 58 billion inheritance into 5 shares, with a total of 10 billion children and a husband Chi Chongrui of 48 billion. Although he didn't know whether it was true or not, news broke that Chi Chongrui had refused to accept the inheritance.
Until now, people's feelings for him and Chen Lihua are still at the level of exchange of interests. A 32-year marriage cannot touch others' hearts. Therefore, Chi Chongrui refused to accept 48 billion yuan of property and defended the purity of their marriage with sincerity.
In this way, it will naturally not have conflicts of interest with children, and will also resolve the contradictions about money.
In fact, the only thing that may affect the interests of children in Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua is to remarry and have children. If Chi Chongrui had his own biological child, how could he be treated equally? Therefore, when getting married, Chen Lihua set family rules for him and would never have children in the future.
When Chi Chongrui accepted this condition, the gap with his children was reduced, so he naturally got along well.
Nowadays, Chen Lihua's eldest son and daughter work with Chen Lihua and serve as the leader in its subsidiary . The eldest daughter Zhao Li has inherited her mother's mantle to a large extent and is committed to inheriting Chinese traditional culture. She is now well-maintained at the age of 66, successful in her career, and a winner in life.
For children, as long as the mother lives a happy life and this love will not affect their own interests, how many people will resist their mother's remarriage. Therefore, Chi Chongrui has long been their real family with the support of his stepdaughter and stepson.
I always believe that sincerity will be exchanged for sincerity. As long as you treat others with a sincere heart, you will naturally get the same reward. This is true for human hearts and so is human feelings. From this perspective, being a stepmother or stepfather is not scary. Among them, what do you do as the person involved?
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