I am 16 years old, I am a nanny, a singer, and have been a ten-millionaire for 39 years. I have been working as a deposit of tens of millions. I have returned to the village to retire.
narration: Taohua
compilation: Mr. Xiao Han
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No one is willing to give up his beautiful youth and live a wandering life in a big city, and no one is willing to be scolded by others, but fate is like this. It will not turn your delusions into reality, but it will only make you worse. My name is Tao Hua. I am 55 years old this year, but I can't tell from my appearance that I am already a woman in my fifties. Today's camera is the best way for women to keep their youth.
I went to Beijing to work hard at the age of 16. It has been a hot topic for 39 years. I have experienced too much suffering and grief, but all my efforts are for a better life. Now I have a lot of children and grandchildren, and I am very happy.
I remember when I first arrived in Beijing, tears couldn't help but shed. After all, how capable is a 16-year-old girl? I have worked as a nanny for the rich, worked as a singer in a bar, had children out of wedlock, and experienced the difficulties of a single mother. All of this has become no longer bad as the years pass. Now, I am back in the countryside and live a quiet country life, very comfortable and happy.
1967 I was born in a small village in , Tangshan, Hebei. I have had a natural voice since I was a child. I like singing and learning. But in our family, it is almost impossible for girls to grow up healthily in such a family.
Our family has three children, I rank second in the family, with my brother and younger brother. After I graduated from junior high school, my father asked me to go home to do farm work in order to get my brother to study, which meant that I couldn't help but drop out of school.
Actually, I have very good academic performance. The teacher came to our house to plead with mercy, but the stubborn father thought: girls will get married sooner or later, what's the use of reading so many books? If the money is spent, will you still earn money for your in-laws?
But I was unwilling to give up. I left my hometown the next year. I only had a dozen yuan on my body, and I secretly took the money from my family. This was also all the property of our family. Even though my father later found out that he was furious, I had already arrived in Beijing at this time and could not see my father's hideous face at all.
When I first arrived in Beijing, I was unfamiliar with the place. There was a man in his forties who took me home. I didn’t realize whether he was a good person or a bad person at all. I only knew that he told me that he was a nanny and would give me 20 yuan a month. This was a very high salary for me, so I went there without hesitation.
This is true. His wife has just given birth to a child and has not yet been confinement. I grew up in the countryside and it is no problem to wash clothes and cook. However, the items in the city are different from those in the countryside. Many things cannot be used. The employer aunt said angrily that I was useless, and even scolded me at all times. If I did something wrong, I would still beat me.
I can tolerate all these because this is my job. No matter how many grievances I suffer, I have to bear it. I dare not throw this job away, for fear of being beaten by my father when I get home. In this way, I spent two years here. The male employer was actually pretty good. When he was there, he would give me some meat, which was also a reward for me.
But the male employer had bad intentions and had been discovered by his wife. He had been a nanny for two years and three months, and I was fired.
At the end of his life, he passed by a bar and heard the sound of the song inside very well. He walked in angrily, found the singing sister, and asked if she could make money by singing. The sister was very kind and said it was OK. As long as she was diligent and thick-skinned, she might make a lot of money.
That's it. I followed this sister on a night of bright lights and wine, shuttled through different bars. I could earn 10 yuan a night. Sometimes because I didn't accept the customers' flowers and spirits, the boss deducted his salary. My sister always bows her head and bows her head, and she doesn't dare to refute it at all.
20 years old, I met the handsome Ayang . He is also a singer, singing rock , with long hair. Under his pursuit, I became his girlfriend. I was young and ignorant. Not long after, I got pregnant, but Ayang disappeared without a trace. My sister said I was too worried, how could I get pregnant?
But I want this child. Even if I know that life in the future will be more difficult, I can be considered as having some savings in my hands at this time and feel that I can afford it.
I gave birth to a child despite my sister's opposition. My sister had to take time to take care of me because she wanted to participate in the national singing competition. Later, my sister became famous, released albums and held concerts, but I still didn't get the chance. Besides, I didn't dare to hope to become a big star. My sister said that with this child, I would never be able to become a singer.
I have been a singer for 11 years and saved a lot of money. I also went home to visit my parents after I had money. My father got the money and did not scold the stealing of the money back then. Instead, he said that I was capable. Maybe even my biological father is so realistic.
29 years old, the mother of a 9-year-old boy, was also at this time, and met another man. He did not dislike me for having a son. He married me openly and asked me to start learning to do business. In more than ten years, the business was very big, but at this time, my husband had already lost all his promises to me.
I chose to divorce when I was 44 years old. My son was studying for graduate school at this time. I don’t want to affect my son because of my life. I gave birth to two more children after marriage. My husband didn’t want any child when he divorced, so I chose to raise him alone.
Although life is difficult, it is still very comfortable to be single, but it is more comfortable than being in marriage.
When my son got married and had children, I felt tired, and my youngest two children also graduated from college at this time. I told them that life is my own, and I will live independently in the future. I will go back to the countryside to live, and I am tired of urban life.
The children get along like friends with me and can understand me. When I returned to the village, many people had already passed away, and there were many younger generations, but they were all unfamiliar to me. I just want to live in the countryside for the rest of my life, familiarity and unfamiliarity, so why bother?
