Recently, a photo of a wedding scene in Taiyuan caused a heated discussion on the Internet. According to their schooling experience, the bride was divided into the bride's elementary school classmates, the bride's middle school classmates, the bride's undergraduate classmates, the bride's master's classmates, and the bride's doctoral classmates. The photos of the wedding were posted online. A large number of netizens questioned the bride's behavior as academic discrimination. But in fact, the bride's arrangement is just to facilitate everyone's communication and avoid the awkwardness of sitting together if they don't know each other. Most of the classmates in the same stage know each other. Even if they don't know each other, they are in the same school. Everyone can still be together when having a banquet. It's a good thing to talk about school or past memories. Many of us will do this when we get married.
But just because the bride has a higher education level, a well-intentioned act was called "discrimination". This bride can be said to be even more unjust than Dou E. The seat sign says "PhD classmates", "Master's classmates", "Undergraduate classmates", "High school classmates", "Junior high school classmates", "Elementary school classmates", but it doesn't say PhD degree, Master's degree, Bachelor's degree, etc. It is simply ridiculous to say that there is discrimination between high school diplomas, junior high school diplomas, and elementary school diplomas.
Most of us hold wedding banquets. In addition to being particular about specific locations, the other basic principle is to let people we know well sit together to avoid embarrassment. It can also liven up the atmosphere and give friends who have not reunited for a long time. Provide us with an opportunity to chat and reminisce. Otherwise, we don’t know each other, and we have nothing to talk about. While everyone is waiting for the food, they can only pick up their mobile phones and mind their own business, and then leave after finishing the meal. That way The wedding scene was so embarrassing. Everyone will have different learning experiences at each stage of their life, and they will also meet different friends during these experiences. This is just based on experience, and there is no distinction based on academic qualifications, nor does it mean to discriminate.
Our current online public opinion environment can easily move from one extreme to the other. Now online public opinion is a bit overly sensitive to all kinds of "discrimination". Some netizens are too glass-hearted and put themselves too much in the perspective of God and saints. This is very dangerous. It is easy to cause cyber violence harm to others. For example, in this incident, the host and guests had a great time. As a result, some netizens quit and maliciously interpreted the bride. Another example is that during the previous epidemic in Shanghai, a woman asked a courier boy to help her deliver some food to her old father who lived alone, and gave her some reward money. The man did not want the reward money because he recognized the girl's filial piety. As a result, Some netizens quit and attacked women online, saying that the woman had no conscience and so on. As a result, news spread that a woman couldn't stand the Internet harassment and jumped off a building.
Another example is the recently controversial lyrics change of Star Lighting. For a song created under a specific situation, there is really no need to over-interpret the lyrics. The current online public opinion environment is really bad. Too many people put themselves in the perspective of saints and become keyboard warriors. We should really be more tolerant and understanding. After all, we are not saints, just ordinary people.
