Introduction: People who work as nannies basically choose to do this job because they are poor. If the conditions were not poor and they were short of money, maybe no one would choose to be a nanny, because being a nanny is very humiliating. Although the salary is high, Some empl

Introduction

People who work as nannies basically choose to do this job because they are poor. If it were not for poor conditions and lack of money, maybe no one would choose to be a nanny, because being a nanny is very humiliating, although the salary is high , but some employers are not easy to take care of. If you are unlucky, you will be made difficult by the employer or you will not be respected. Therefore, the nanny job is really not as good as imagined. People who can persist in doing it need to have a very good job. Have a good attitude, otherwise you won’t be able to persist.

A 49-year-old man went to work as a live-in nanny for a 70-year-old aunt. When the aunt asked her to help wash her feet, the man angrily said: "I am not your lover. I am just a nanny. I have no obligation to do so much." The man said After that, the female employer responded directly: "This is your job."

Let's take a look at this story.

49-year-old Mr. Lin

I am 49 years old, my surname is Lin, I am a native of rural areas, people born in our village are all very poor, because people in our village basically have no ability and no What kind of culture, so many people live a very hard life, and some people even live a life without a meal, so our village is really very poor.

When I was young, I swore that I would stand out when I grew up, because only in this way can I change the life of my family. But who knew that when I grew up, I failed to make a career because I didn’t read I have no education, so I have no education, and big companies outside require people with academic qualifications, and they also need to graduate from college. No one would want a rural person like me, so I applied for the job when I first went out. Many times failed.

At that time, I almost starved to death in the city because I couldn’t find a job. Fortunately, I found a job later, and it also included food and accommodation. Otherwise, I would have starved to death. Although food and accommodation were included, the salary was It's very high, it's only two thousand yuan a month, but I don't dare to dislike it, because being able to find a job is already considered good, so I don't dare to dislike it at all, and I don't deserve to dislike it.

In order to keep this job stable, I work hard every day. Although I can't make much money no matter how hard I work, I still have to persist, because only in this way will I not starve to death.

Later, when I got married, no one wanted to marry me because I was poor. It wasn’t until I was 29 that I found a wife, and she was introduced to me by someone else.

My wife is not very beautiful, her family conditions are not good, she is rustic, and her skin is very dark, but I don’t dare to dislike her, because it happened to be an era when there were more men than women. I can marry a My wife is pretty good, but many men in our village can't marry her, so I don't dare to dislike others at all. I'm afraid that others will dislike me.

In order to allow my parents to have a grandson as soon as possible, half a year after we got married, I discussed having a child with my wife. At that time, my wife did not refuse and agreed to give me a child.

Later, my wife also got pregnant smoothly. After my wife became pregnant, I also chose to work at the construction site, because the salary at the construction site was relatively high. Although it was very hard, I had to do it because I had to support my wife and children, so I couldn’t. I can't just get that 2,000 yuan salary for the rest of my life doing ordinary jobs. I have to find a job with a higher salary, so that I can bring a good life to my children and my wife.

After I went to the construction site, my monthly salary was basically less than 5,000 yuan. Although it was not a lot, I was satisfied because I had never received such a high salary, so I would not dislike it. .

Later, my children grew up in the blink of an eye. After my children grew up, I was even more stressed because I had to enroll them in various cram schools, supplement them with various nutrients, and pay them every semester. Tuition, the salary from working at the construction site is just enough to pay for tuition and cram school fees. After paying, there is no living expenses. I wanted to buy new clothes many times but couldn't afford them, so our days are special. bitter.

Later I really couldn't stand it, so I chose to be a male nanny . Originally, I wanted my wife to do it, because women are better at doing housework and taking care of people, but my wife is not in good health. If If she is asked to do this job, her health will only become worse and worse. Although this job pays well, it is not easy to do at all, so I can't bear to let my wife work hard.

After becoming a male nanny, I also received a high salary. I used to only receive 5,000 when I worked at a construction site, but after becoming a nanny, I received 7,000 in the first month. If I continue to work, , then the salary will definitely continue to increase, so I decided to keep doing it until I can’t hold on anymore.

Although I also suffered some grievances at that time, it was also very hard. Because high wages require high efforts, so my daily workload is very heavy. But in order to make money, I dare not complain and can only pay silently. .

I did it for many years later. Over the years, I also changed my family’s life through this job. The children also had money to buy new clothes. In the past, they would not throw away their clothes when they were torn and had to mend them. Even though they are often laughed at by others for being poor, my children don't care because they know that the conditions at home are not good, so they will not envy others, let alone have any desire to compare, and they will not be sensible in the face of their children. , I feel very happy and hope that I can continue to earn money to help them live a good life, so that I will not feel guilty towards them.

In order to earn more money, I will conscientiously complete the work assigned by my employer every day. Although I have suffered a lot of grievances and suffered a lot in the past few years, these employers are relatively easy to serve and are not excessive. They didn't disrespect me, they just blamed me sometimes when I didn't do well. I usually don't curse people for no reason, let alone disrespect them, so I was quite happy with what I did.

I thought I would be able to continue working happily. It wasn’t until I met a female employer that I realized that not all employers are so easy to talk to, and not all employers are so easy to serve.

I didn’t want to serve this female employer at first. Firstly, she is a woman. Secondly, she is 70 years old and her health is not very good. Finally, it is very hard for an old man with poor health, but I thought that this employer would give me She was offered a salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and I felt it was a pity not to go, so I chose to stay and serve her.

When I was serving this female employer, I was really attentive, for fear of making mistakes, because the salary she gave me was too high. When I took her money, I had to do things for her, and I had to do things well, so Only then can you successfully get this salary.

No matter how well I do, this employer is never satisfied with me and always feels that I have taken her money in vain.

She also arranges a lot of work for me every day. She never lets me rest or eat on time. Whenever she sees my breasts removed, she will blame me for being lazy, and she will also use this excuse to deduct my salary. , so sometimes I feel really helpless, but I don’t dare to scold her. After all, she is my boss. If I talk back, I won’t get my full salary.

At that time, no matter how wronged I was, I didn’t dare to complain. I could only quietly complete the tasks assigned by my employer. But because I was so talkative, my employer became more and more aggressive. One time, she even asked me to wash her hands. I was very concerned about my feet at the time, because I felt that this kind of work was not what I should do, but I still chose to do it for the money, because at that time I thought she was just asking me to wash it once.

I didn’t expect that after washing my feet once, it became my job, and I had to wash my feet every other day. After washing my feet many times, I became irritated because every time I washed them, she wouldn’t let me wear a mask. , and every time I wash it, I step on the water deliberately, so it has to be all over my face, so no one else can bear it.

Later, I angrily yelled at her: "I'm not your lover. You have no right to ask me to wash your feet. I'm just a nanny and have no obligation to do so much."

As a result, she responded without hesitation: "This is your job. You want to shirk your responsibility after taking my money. If you dare not wash my feet, you will never get a full salary in the future. I will do it as soon as possible." It’s a bit of a deduction. If you don’t believe me, you can try it. "

Seeing my employer being so arrogant, I couldn't bear it anymore, so I resigned decisively. I felt that only by resigning would I not have to suffer this kind of grievance, so I decided to leave my employer's home and start serving other employers again.

later left. After she came home, I heard that she had never hired a nanny because she had many demands that many people couldn't accept, which also resulted in her being unable to hire a nanny. Seeing that she couldn't hire a nanny, I felt inexplicably happy and also I think she deserves it. If she hadn't been so excessive, no one would be willing to serve her.

Conclusion

So as an employer, you still have to treat others well, otherwise it will not end well.